so theres this guy, who is 3 years older than me, he's 18 and i'm 15. Well, he doesn't abuse his power of being older at ALL. I haven't seen him in a while because last time my mom almost caught me hanging out with him(that wouldn't be good).Anyways, so its been about almost 2-3 months since i've hung out with him. He's a really sweet guy and i love hanging out with him. I know exactly what i'm looking for a guy, and he has everything i want. But, the bad part is, the age he doesn't mind it, and after 2 years of being there for me, he hasn't treated me in a bad way... at all. I'm afraid of what people will say, is it okay to be with him as long as i'm careful?
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Older guys?
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ALSO... my best friend isn't very into the idea of me seeing him again. I dont know why, when i talk about it she doesn't seem to want to talk about it, and when she does she's like YOU SHOW HIM WHO'S BOSS...etc.
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Best friends who are against a relationship may well see something that you, blinded by love, don't. However, on the other hand, they can sometimes be just jealous because you spend more time with the bf and less with them - or because they want the bf themselves. It's hard to tell if they won't say.I don't think three years is too much, especially as it's in the right direction (girls tend to mature a little earlier than boys). There may be legal issues with sex, however, that could put him in danger. Take things slowly, and in three years' time no-one should object.
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I have the same problem. Theres this girl who is 19, we talk alot, sometimes hang out. My friend don't want me to be here for some odd reason!I'm 15, shes 19. It's not like a relationship, but still!
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I really like this guy. and he looks out for me, and i know he cares about me.
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That's funny. That is exactly what I thought about my son's father when I was 16. Then I got pregnant and that was the end of that relationship.
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Oh lish, I am onboard with you on THAT one!!! If she is just friends with the guy though, it might not be such a bad thing. I have a friend that was older than me, and 15 yrs later we are still wonderful friends....he too looked out for me, gave me a shoulder to cry on, but we never got intimate, I think that is what the difference might be.
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I dont think its a bad thing atall. Speaking from a guys persepctive, I'm not opposed with getting with a girl 3 years younger than me (except for that fact I never know what to say to them). If you get on well then so be it, do as you will.The point about pregnancy can apply at any age, with any age of partner.
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Friends or not, there basically one thing in the mind of an 18-year old guy who's friends with a 15-year old girl...regardless of what he says. Be careful.
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I diagree. You cannot see into mens souls and you cannot say for sure that an 18 yearold guy cant have an emotional attatchment for a 15 yearold girl.
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you go! I was friends with my friend, we went to parties together so we didn't get picked up on by the rest of the creeps at the party...he protected me while I was drunk, and if he would have wanted to, he could have taken advantage, I had (have) a major crush on him.
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Thats real cool. I wont deny its a dangerous risk to take though. But trust always has its risks.