okay so first off, i'm adopted, so i dont know what my real parents body types are like. I am 15 years old and i am around 5'6''-5'7'' and weigh around 125-130 this bothers me because my 2 best friends are deathly skinny naturally, and naturally, i'm a big blob of fat. i have body pics and people say i have a really nice body, but i am always in denial about it like when people say i'm pretty, i always tell them i'm not. Also, i'm afraid to get emotionally close to someone because i'm afraid of losing them, like i lost my mom. and i lost the closest thing to me when i was so little, that i dont want it to happen again.
Am i overweight?
omg! you are deffinatly not overweight. like medically even, for ur heigt the average weight is like between 140 and 150,(dont know if this is for everyone) so you are not over weight at all. your actually thin, i mean, not anorexic like nicole ricci,but u prob. have a great body!and maybe with the relationship prob. and not being able to take a comment, thats prob just mental. i mean, your prob just self concious and need to talk to someone. but no matter what you look like or how much you weigh you are still gorgeous!
o yes you seem like your obese....like honestly now (note the sarcasm....)..i bet your a stick. i hate how people say this stuff..i know some people actually has a disorder in which they feel like this, but i hear a lot of this where i live and it pisses me off.YOUR NOT FAT!!! im 5'8" and i way a hell of a lot more then that, and im told im not fat.. if you really feel that you are, then get some counselling...or tell your friends to eat some food lol. i bet you are a lot healthier than them. and plus, most guys nowadays dont even really like stick thin girls, well around where i live they dont. and about being afraid to be in a relationship...DONT BE!!. if you have confidence in yourself then you should be fine hunn. if you give off a vibe of being self-conscience around guys, then trust me, IT WILL push them away. im sorry about your mother leaving you, but it couldnt have been because of your weight "problem". she probably had issues of her own, and felt as tho running from them can help..but it obviously doesnt. you shouldnt feel like its your fault for being adopted hunn. some parents just cant accept the responsibility of actually being a parent. so dont blame yourself hugsim so sorry if i sound rude, but i just hate how distorted todays society is in making young women feel about their bodies.. everyone is beautiful!!! no matter what size,shape or color..just be yourself hunn, you are YOU, not your friends or anything like that. dont compare, ACCEPT. i bet you are very beautiful in your own way, you just need to realize it. i have always felt insecure about myself too, dont get me wrong, but im beginning to accept the fact that i will never be as skinny as people you see on magazine covers and all that. and guys and girls say im beautiful, and you need to realize it too hunn. so please stop feeling as tho you are fat and that you are afraid of being in a relationship. i know it may take some time, so if you need any help with it please pm me and let me know. i will try my best to listen and help you ok?XOx
*~I don't mind living in a man's world..As long as I can be a woman in it!~* -Marilyn
definatley NOT fat
Im a guy, named casey.