Ladies I really need help. I know there might be a question somewhere on the forum similar to this one but I prefer more women answering this question. Here is the problem for prom I took this girl that I have been developing feelings for to prom. After prom, four other couples went to a hotel and had an extra room so they gave it to us. Even though that night we did not have sex, we fooled around (I kissed her all over her body I tried to make her feel special w/o going all the way).That night was magical to us both without the sex. Since then we have been fooling around in the same manner as before. But yesterday things got a little heated and we tried to go all the way. We are both virgins but she thinks that I’m not one every time I try to tell her that I am she says I am lying. See at the high school we graduated from I was ranked most popular and graduated # 1 and there are many girls that tried to spread rumors around that I had sex with them. I went along with the rumors but now they are having a negative effect. Anyways back to the story for about 30 min. I tried to come up with an excuse not to have sex even though I really wanted to do it. I am inexperienced and wanted her first time to be special. I did not want to seem like a fool. After her fighting with me we finally decided that we were going to try to do it. But the problem is even though I fingered her before we tried I could not get it in fully. We kept on trying but it would not go fully in and we stop because she said it was hurting but at the same time, it felt good. I am kind big down there but I know that it can spread to accommodate even big sizes. I just wanted to know was it me and/or what could I do to make it pleasurable for us both. Thanks for any suggestion it would be most appreciated.
CONFUSED--NEED HELP LADIES
sometimes it can take several tries, it sounds like you weren't ready and she might not have been either, you can really tense up if you're having doubts, make sure she's fully aroused and even try using a lubricant
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yeah i think she wasnt ready, if she dont wanna do it leave her and wait or find sum1 else.
Sorry I don't agree with useronline's ridiculous post. If she doesn't want to do it, and you care about her, wait until she's comfortable. Don't fight with her until she does. If you wait until she's comfortable things will go much, much, much more smoothly. She'll be more relaxed, more aroused and it'll be much easier. Get the mood right, make sure that you cannot be disturbed and use lube. The lingering thought that you may be disturbed can really put her off and make her tense.