Well my bestie at school hooked me up with a guy she used to go to school with and he was really cute. We have only talked on MSN 3 times and i have already changed my name to I luv u! Ur my hunni bunni... and yeah... and then when he saw it he was like... wth i dont even know u well and i was like... thats the way i feel soo yeah and then he was soo angry. Am i moving 2 quickly??? I dont want to stuff it up with him!!!
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Am I moving 2 quickly???
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short answer - YES! carry on like that and you will scare him away LOL Be happy to be you, not someone who loves someone else, not someone who is trying so hard to be someone else, be you!
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oppsys then!!!oh well im gonna meet him really soon soo im happy and maybe i will be ok but what if i say something i shouldn't this is scaring me now... i dont want to let him go cause he is soo cute but then i want him to speak to me and open up!!!
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If you want him to open up and be comfortable with you, you have to be comfortable with him. Yes you like him, now, get to know him a bit more and you might not LOL what im trying to say is relax, be yourself, have fun and try not to put too much pressure on yourself or him to make everything perfect. You can't have fun if you are trying to force it.
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Guys get scared of a girl who seems too "clingy". They are afraid they will lose the ability to choose for themselves where they want to take the relationship.
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My last girlfriend started to get way to clingy and rushed like that. She was saying "I love you" after going out for a couple weeks and she was just very... clingy, not sure exactly how to say it without going into great detail. I liked her, but the fact she was just so needy and clingy really got to me and she started to really bug me (not to mention I kind of stopped finding anything interesting to ever talk about or relate with, but that's aside from the point).