May be called a sick freak for this but HELP!!!!

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Okay guys anyway i had the sickest dream lastnight about me having sex with my sister who is only 11. When i woke up i was so disgusted of what I dreamt about. Why did i dream about this?? am i a sick perv. Second I can't stop fantasising about my mom.....OMG i know i am a sick fuck but why am I fantasising about her?? Is this just a fase? Please guys i need someone to talk too I find this very disgusting but i can't help myself...I hate it when i think like this...o ya and once in awhile i fantasise things about my little dog...Guys if anyone can tell me that this is a fase and that it will pass over or even better if someone can PM and talk to me about it I will be the happiest person in the world. I really do hate thinking like this and i don't want to think like that anymore....I love my dogs, my sister, and my mom very much but not in that way...it's just recently i've been thinking about these. By the way i am 16 years old....again please help me. WTF is wring with me.

Don't worry, its normal !! I fantasize about your mom, dog and sister too, all us guys do.

It may be a dream driven by your anxieties.

Well, I can only speak about the dream part. I once dreamed that my sister was sucking me and to tell you the truth, it didn't really bother me. Why? Because I knew it was only a dream and that in reality, I wasn't attracted to my sister at all mentally (physically might be different, but her being my sister, I've never thought of her like that).

well u cant really control ur dreams, only sometimes. but its just ur subconscience thinking about that and stuff, not cause u wanna do it in real life. dont worry bout it, it should stop on its own.

what everyone said here is true. if you keep thinking about how sick and disgustiing it is, then you more than likely will be thinking about it sub-consciencely (bad spelling) in your sleep. i know im like that. if i keep thinking about something during the day, i will more than likely dream about it too. the mind works in some pretty weird ways. a dream is a dream. that is it. its not something you want in real life (obviously), so dont worry about it. the more you worry, the more you will think about it. hope i helped XOx

I wouldnt worry about it honey; it's not our sleeping thoughts that make us pervs, it's our waking ones.

ok i'm not really worried about the dreaming part anymore but what about the other part?? Are you saying that i should just forget all about it?? and it will go away because i really don't wanna think about it anymore. plz help.

It's easy to worry too much about thoughts that bubble up in your brain. The subconscious brain throws up a lot of stuff, some of it almost random, and there's a filter that suppresses most of it. Sometimes things get past the filter and we become conscious of them, but that doesn't mean you're a bad person. It is what you do by your conscious will that is good or bad.

The more you worry about this the more you consider it an actual concern, therefore legitimising it as one in your own mind. But these are random thoughts that you are stringing together and focusing on and by doing so you are giving credence to them, when you really dont need to. When these things occur to you, you should just mentally push them away, but do so in a casual manner. Just think something along the lines of; 'theres that wierd-arsed thought again - good luck to it'. There are enough genuine concerns in life without allowing your mind to invent them.

so ur saying that if i stop thinking about it, it will go away??

hopefully it will just go away dude

but i couldnt help but think when i was reading your post that you were joking!

Not exactly; we dont have the power to regulate our own thoughts, what I'm saying is that if you stop regarding these thoughts as a big deal they will stop causing you stress in turn, and in time will eventually melt away on their own. I think it's because you're considering them a major issue that they are at the forefront of your mind, so the liklihood they'll occur to you is heightened, and then, when they do, you are stressed and upset by them and you're going in circles with it all. What I'm advising you to do is to disregard them, see them for the silly nonsense that they are, then they wont be able to torment you and will naturally occur less often, till they're gone compleatly.If I paid attention and gave credence to every wierd-arsed dream/thought I'd ever had I'd regard myself a pervert of the highest order, with sexual compulsions directed towards everything from cucumbers to washing machines - which I know is not the case!

Is that a photo of Peter K, the English comedian? If not it's the image of him..

i had a few sex dreams aobut my mom a while back. the fact is, whatever your subconcious may be trying to tell you, you know that actually pursuing sex with your mom or sister would be sick or wrong, and that you would not want to do it. now, since you know these things, what does it matter if you're having weird dreams? if you where having sex dreams about your mom and you actually enjoyed them, there would be a cause for concern, but you dont, so there isnt.PS, about the fantasizing, when i was like 12 i would get a recourring flashing image in my head of my mom doing sex acts...same with my dad...i found it disturbing but i knew that because i didnt want to do it with my folks that there was nothing really wrong with me. anyway, take it easy dude. you'll be okay.

yep its the legend that is peter kay gaaaaaaaaaaaaarlic bread?

I loved him in that show 'Max and Paddy's road to nowhere' - brilliant.

it is totally normal, i fantasizing about my mom too when i was around 15. In my experienced, the reason i dreamed about it was because around that age i got lost ALOT in one of those huge shopping malls (lol ye), that have 3 stories high. I was really scared and was about to cry too. In my mind, i was thinking about my mom and for some reason i missed her SO MUCH. Luckily, i didnt cry and found my mom and dad. Later that day when i slept, i dreamed about her .......with her.....I was so surprised because it was the first time i ever had that kind of dream. I dreamed about it again, but as i aged, the dream went away, so dont worry. So, the reason that u dreamed about ur mom, sis, even dog was because ur loves were so great.

yeah hehe , i prefer his stand up stuff , dont see him around much these days tho