okay well im just one stupid girl and i need to learn from my mistakes. so ive had sex numerous times w/o a condom, once in april or so the condom broke and i was freaked out but i found that i had my period twice since. also another time we werent using one and he didnt pull out that quick and got a little in me so i went to the bathroom to wash it out so from that point when we wouldnt use one i would always go into the bathroom and wash it out. just recently, about a week after my last period my body felt like it was starting to change. i usually sleep on my tummy and now its just unbarable and some lotion like substance is coming out of my vagina. i looked online at some early pregnancy symptoms and i had a few of them but they were normal things like heartburn and fatigue. i have fatigue normally because im hypoglycemic. so ive been praying to god that wont be pregnant because i cannot carry a baby and i dont want to be in the situation of having to deal with an abortion but that is the only choice i have. i will not tell my parents at all so i would have to do it the most painful way possible, anything but having a child and im afraid that if i were to do a homemade abortion that it would messup later on when i want to have a kid. i also do not know how to ask my mom for birth control because i dont want that feeling of her thinking 'i know what your gonna be doing' and all. we have talked about me getting on it twice but she just wont get the hint. well i am just another dumbass teenager who needs to make more grown up decisions. so today i have decided to not have sex anymore untill i get on birth control. sorry for all of you people who read about my stupid situation, its just a way to see what yall think, if im pregnant or not, and just to get it off my chest. btw this website is the best idea ive ever heard of. it has helped me out a lot.
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Another one of those "AM I PREGNANT?!" stories.
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As a mother of 3 i just want to scream when i read posts like this!If you want to have sex, then you are old enough to talk to your mum about getting on the pill and since you're only 14 right? i would suggest you use condoms too............i got pregnant while on the pill.You have been having periods so pregnancy, lets hope anyway, shouldn't be an issue YET! tho if you are worried get a home test and do it. Washing his cum out of you isn't a good way of stopping getting pregnant btw!Im sorry i don't mean to sound snippy but your post saddened me greatly. You are a child yourself, far too you in my opinion to be messing around having sex, and even worse unprotected sex.................if you are going to behave like an adult then you have to act like one and that means speaking to someone about proper contraception etc, and being responsable..........
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Dont you think she'll know with a good deal more certainty what you've been up to if you end up pregnant? If you really dont want your mother to know you're having sex you could always tell her you want the pill in order to regulate your periods. She may guess the real reason, but the main thing here is not to end up pregnant, especially, for Gods sake, at 14! You'd be signing your whole life away. Dont forget either, that the pill will not do anything to protect against STD's. So if you move on to a new partner whose sexual history you are ignorant of, condoms are the only way to go. (I'm assuming here because you are so young that you and your boyfriend have only been with eachother? If not you should be using condoms to protect against STD's even if you were on the pill)
And by the way, a home-done abortion on a young teenager with a serious medical condition sounds like russion roulette with your life to me. Please be more careful, am not trying to be mean to you, just trying to get you to see sense. There is no contraceptive benefit whatever from washing yourself out after sex. There are many many millions of sperm in one ejaculation and it only takes one to alter your life forever.x
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Boy boy boy, these posts just get more and more interesting. I am a mother of three children, so excuse me if I be a little bias. Number one, if you do not want children, do not have sex until you are ready. If your man wants some booty that bad, tell him to jack himself off because you are not responsible enough to handle your own body. if a man cums in you, you cannot just wash it out and think that everything may be okay. Do not give yourself a homemade abortion, you might kill yourself trying to kill someone else. That "lotion" that is coming out of you, sounds like a yeast infrection from washing yourself out as you call it. Please be responsible. That is why things like babies being thrwon in the garbage, AIDS, HIV, and other sexual problem arise. Being ignorant. And personally, I do not think that you need to stop having sex until you get birth control pills, I think that you do not need to have sex until you get some psychiatric pills. :blush:
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I wouldnt worry about 'psychiatric pills' luv, that's just random opinion. Just steer clear of the STD's, i.e. use condoms & the pill and you'll be ok! xx