Alright. Well, ever since I was 8 years old (Now 13), I've been masturbating. Sometimes sexual, sometimes not. Anyway, the traditional way that I masturbate, doesn't seem to be very common. I usually lay face-down on the ground, or my bed. Then I masturbate with my hands between the floor and my penis, and I kind of push against it (Weight of my body, plus hands, as well as the floor/matress). Anyway, when I do this, I can easily reach orgasm. Its so easy in fact that I can easily orgasm within 30 seconds. Many people would see this as a blessing, but the problem is that I don't really ejaculate. A little string, or sometimes a few drops of cum/semen just kind of drips out, or comes out in a very low-strength push. (I think all of the weight on my penis is actually putting TOO much force on my penis, causing the cum/semen to not be able to launch out in the force that it is meant to be) What I've been trying lately is to be able to jack-off the most common way (Fist/cup/stroke/whatever you prefer) with just one hand and while sitting down. I can't do it with any versibility. I have to be lying down. I've tried doing it my usual way, and then quickly getting up and stroking, but kills the pleasure the instant I get up and nothing is happening. The reason I can't "stroke" to orgasm, is because this literally gives me no pleasure (I've tried 100's of different ways. One hand on shaft, both on shaft, one hand on head, both on head, one hand head and one hand shaft, both hand balls, etc.) And, note here, I'm definetely not willing to do anal pleasure. I've tried to move from my current way to the "stroke/fist" by going up in small stances. Kneeling down and doing it on my lean-back desk chair, doing it against the wall, etc.) I think these things don't work, because there's still not enough force against my penis. I've tried using stimuli, such as porn, condoms, hentai, anything I can think of. I've even gone a month hiatus to see if I could get back some sensitivity, but that still didn't help. It's as if I don't have nerve endings on my shaft, but I can feel the skin going up and down. And yes, I am circumsised(sp?). I have run out of personal options, and ideas. Does anyone else here masturbate like this? Did anybody else have to go through this problem? Does anyone have any advice that could possibly help me? Thanks in advance for reading this entire post and for any help you can offer.
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Help on common Masturbation
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Sorry, I don't have any advice for you, but I do want to say that you have amazing grammar and extensive vocabulary for a 13 year old.
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try laying down on your back, and when you masturbate, make sure youre holding tight enough (not too tight though, obviously), and with one had, make sure part of your thumb runs over the edge of the head. if this works for you, try doing it more slowly the next time, and always keep yourself relaxed when you get to orgasm. trust me, it feels much better that way. i hope this was helpful.
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Welcome to A2A, PandaPoops.Your method of masturbating isn't so uncommon, and is part of the general method identified by Kinsey of "pelvic thrusts when prone". Your particular way of doing it, using your hands as well, may put more pressure on the penis, but I doubt that is the reason for the form of your ejaculation. Some guys are shooters but many (including me) are oozers who don't produce much pressure. And volumes of ejaculate vary, and some guys produce more and some less. It doesn't correlate with fertility - when there's a lot of volume the same number of sperm are more diluted.I wouldn't worry. Humping your hands is closer to vaginal sex than standard masturbation is, and despite what one foolish website says, there's no evidence it will cause you any special difficulty with real sex.
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I'll definitely try that method next time I feel the need to do it.Also, thanks for the comments everyone. But, truth be told. One of the reasons I dislike this form of masturbation is because its certainly not versatile and I'd prefer it if I could masturbate while using the computer or something, without having to be across the room on my bed. Or worse, trying to see the monitor from the floor.
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Thanks for the method, but sadly it still does not work. I did, however, hear about a method of using certain types of hair conditioner as lube. And after I tried it, I found I could get pleasure from the "fist/stroke/whatever you wanna call it" method. My problem with this however, after being able to finally get some pleasure from the most-used method is that I can't get "enough" pleasure. I'll either get a lot of pleasure and it the stroking will just stop working, or I will get a lot and I will "activate" some muscle against my will (I think the muscle is meant to close the anus) and the pleasure just stops. Any help or advice would still be very helpful and I'd be very thankful.