Girlfriend is sad about breasts.

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My girlfriend thinks she has small boobs and it makes me feel really bad when she starts thinking this way.I think theyre actually pretty nice and I keep trying to make her feel better but for some reason she just cant believe she has nice breasts. Any of you have an idea of how i can convince her otherwise ?

ummm i'd say just keep reassuring her. i think if she can believe that at least you like them, she could be at least a little more satisfied. and try to give her reasons why u say theyre not small, b/c "believe me, theyre fine" wont do the trick. i had the same problem w/ a girlfriend once.

Off the top of my head, I'd say search the internet and save pics on your computer of hot women with breasts her size....and "accidentally" leave one up when she comes over. When she sees it, apologize and tell her you just think the woman is hot, but you prefer the real thing. Maybe that will help.

Best of luck!

Hmm, I don't think that would be a good idea. Most women don't like the idea that their men find anyone else hot.

LOL.. A very very poorly thought out response.

Okay, to you, Ineligible and sexpot, here's the deal: not every person is totally insecure and perhaps his gf is one of those. There are plenty of posters on this site whose sig other watches and looks at porn with them...and if getting an erection looking at a hot woman fucking a hot guy isn't okay, I think there'd be a whole lot less happy couples in the world. Remember, the OP only said his gf was sad about her breast size, not that she was insecure. For good or ill, she has smallish breasts...I was just suggesting a way for him to let her know he digs breasts that size. I'm not saying I'm right or even that it's a fabulous idea, but I haven't seen anything better out of you three, yet

and looks at porn with them

key words... "With" them

Guaranteed.. if you leave nude pictures on your screen and your woman sees it. She's gonna have an issue with it.

I thank you for the response but i dont think that idea will go over well with my girlfriend. She does know i watch porn but i dont think shed be too happy to see any of the girls that i look at.

Who said anything about nude? I just said pictures of hot women with similar sized breasts...that could be from magazine covers. Hell, quite a few models have smaller breasts and that certainly doesn't stop them from making magazine covers...it's all in how you show them. I certainly wouldn't suggest Sports Illustrated models, but take a look at the covers of some of the "women's" mags the next time you're in line at any grocery store.

Sorry, but that sounds like you want what she doesn't have. Could that be part of the problem? Those things come across, you know....the very first time she follows your eyes to some woman with tits bigger than hers...and there's no doubt in my mind she's looking for that.Just a thought.

I just said pictures of hot women with similar sized breastsOk so you didn't say nude... but you're missing the point. ANY time you compare woman, you will end up the loser.

And you're missing the point...there was no comparison suggested, simply displaying a picture of someone with breasts of a similar size to project an understanding to his gf that he's happy with her breasts.Well, we could go on forever, here, but I've got better things to do with my time. I've offered my advice--for good or ill--and now I'm done.To the OP: still wish you the best of luck.

Whatever..

I don't think you should look at porn while you're in a relationship it just doesn't make sense. I think I'd feel unwanted or like I don't mean much if I found out my boyfriend was watching porn. He shouldn't need it.

**Hon, most women have a bit of themselves they dont' like, and no amount of saying the right thing can change what they truly feel inside, only they can do that. Keep doing what you are doing saying how beautiful her breasts are etc, and that no matter what she might think, and that you love em and find them a huge turn on.......thats all you can do the rest has to come from her. **

Yeah, OK kiddo.

Sorry JapanFan but its' very likely your boyfriend (if you have one at the moment) looks at porn. It doesn't mean that he doesn't think you're hot, guys just need to see something sometimes when jacking off.

it was just an opinion. I didn't mean it as a must.

In reply to: I just said pictures of hot women with similar sized breastsOk so you didn't say nude... but you're missing the point. ANY time you compare woman, you will end up the loser. i agree

Yea, I try to stray away from porn in a relationship, or stay away from porn altogether.