Ok well I have got myself in rather a pickle. I like this girl (lets call her girl 1), shes really cute but I dont know her very well, she doesnt know if she likes me like that or not, well she does she just doesnt wanna feel like shes leading me on just incase when she gets to know me better she doesnt like me. Anyway Im not worrying about that happening. But her best friend (girl 2) who I have been friends with for a while (how I met the other girl) we have been getting on really well and have SO much in commen, we have been talking to eachother and its insane how alike we are. I have started to fall for her best friend now, but I dont know the girl im currently getting with right now (girl 1) I dont know her very well, but I guess she could be equaly as cool but I dunno I dont find anyone I can talk to like girl 2 very often, if ever.Now here is where it gets COMPLICATED, my best friend ever, my main man. He likes girl 2 with and wants to get with her, I know she isnt going to like him like that, well she may but it wont last, and its very doubtful she will go for him. I dont know what to do. I dont want to upest my best friend and I dont want to upset her best friend either. Im not sure if she likes me or not, we talk all night some nights, I think she probrably does but doesnt wanna do anything for the same reasons as me. If I go for girl 2 I will ruin my chances with girl 1, but what if girl 1 was better anyway and I just didnt get to know her?If I get with girl 1 and it doesnt work out and I try to get with girl 2, I dont want her feeling second best, because at the moment to me she is not. Shes pretty and she is amazing, girl 1 is pretty but I dont know her as well. And even worse I dont want my best friend to be upset, he has only met her 2 times so he would understand but still...I really need some advice, Im really confused.
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One hell of a situation!
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Decide which girl you want the most. If that means Girl 2, then wait to see what your mate does. If your mate doesnt get with her then you go for her. Ultimately you cant have both the girls so you really need to know which is the one you want most.
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Yer, it involves getting to know girl 1 though before I make any decisions. Its really hard to get to know a girl who youre supposed to like when her best friend is one of the most awsome girls you have ever met and pretty hot too ^^. If my best friend got with her I would be really jellous to tell the truth... more because I know both of them really well and I know me and her are more suited together than her and him. They are pretty differant in allot of ways :/. I guess your right, I should give it some time. Only problem is the more time I give it the more complicated it would get if I still like girl 2 ^^
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Is your friend prone to resentment? If you think he can take it then it may be worth going for the girl you know you dig.
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Well I was thinking that too but today when we were at the gym he was talking about her, so it sounds like he has got his hopes up. I wouldnt hate to be the one to burst his bubble. I guess I may have to stick to my mottow of friends > girls no matter how much it hurts me to do it. Heh, I guess he will never know how hard it was for me to try and be a good friend ^^