Hello,I'm 17 and plan to have sex with my GF for the 1st time this weekend. I can pull my foreskin back with no problem when my penis is flaccid but it stings a little when I do it while erect. If I pull my foreskin back before going in, will it move back and forth during sex? I'd like to avoid the stinging sensation if at all possible. Also, will the foreskin peel back further during sex? I've heard that the frenulum is delicate and don't want to tear it.Finally, how will wearing a condom affect the movement of the foreskin? I'm just a little nervous the pain that I might feel the first time around. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
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Foreskin movement during sex
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It sounds like you have a slightly tight foreskin, this means the during sex with a condom it will more than likely just stay back.
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Hey bud - retract your foreskin and then put on the condom. That should help keep it retracted and will minimize that "stinging" feeling. That stinging is related to the fact that your penis head stays covered all the time - its very sensitive. The more you expose it to direct stimulation and sexual things - the less sensitive it'll be. Try it - when you masturbate expose the head and rub on it, use some lube to simply rub it and touch it....soon you'll notice less sensitivity or "stinging" and much more pleasure. I know - I'm uncut too.. Oh and by the way - yes, your skin will most likely slide back and forth during sex....it works that way. If things are lubed well, you're not agressive and you're wearing a condom - chances are you won't ever tear the frenulum. Enjoy!
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_but it stings a little _
What is it? If it's the forskin/frenulum, then it is being stressed because it is too tight. Be careful.
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Thanks for the feedback, guys. I'm feeling a little better about it now. Yeah, I think my foreskin is a bit tight and the penis head is very sensitive, that's were the stinging comes from. Just to be sure, the foreskin shouldn't slide any further down beyond the head during normal (not too aggressive) sex, right?
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pull it back and put on a condom, that's the best way to start. you wont know for sure if its a serious problem til you give it a try.
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Just speaking from my experience, under a condom my foreskin doesn't move at all during sex. I still have a tightish foreskin probably similar to yours, but ask long as there is enough lubrication you shouldn't rip or tear anything. It's not like your frenulum will suddenly snap, you feel it stretch a little, just take it easy until you're lubed up enough.
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How easy is it to tear the Frenulum? How delicate is it?
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It's pretty strong, but it is more likely to tear if it is too tight and not stretchy enough to allow the foreskin its full range of movement.
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In regard to foreskin movement during sex In all honestly ive found it all depends [when wearing a condom] how big/small you are and how big or small the girls hole is.ive been with a girl with a right bucket on her and had no sensathon at all and gave up after a good 4 hours at it.excuse my spelling
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theres no point screwing a nut on a bolt if its to big