This will sound stupid I know but I need some reassurance. My boyfriend and I are ALWAYS careful and we use condoms but, this one time, after we had had sex a couple times, he went and used the bathroom and came back. We started to have sex again and I sort of coaxed him to put it in for a small amount of time, less than a minute, and then we came to our senses and he got up and put a condom on. He said he wasn't near cumming. I just wanted to fill him inside me. I know the condoms from before had spermicide on them and he had went and peed. Do you think there would be any chance that I should worry??? I am a worry-wort and KNEW BETTER!!!! Please let me know something quickly, I am going crazy here! Thanks!
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Sex after using a condom
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You should be fine. He cleared out his urethra when he went to the bathroom. No more crazy risks next time!
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Ok, come on people, I know there have been a lot of views on this so please, can I get more than one post to my question? Unless everyone agrees with the posting and that I am in no danger of being pregnant.
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Demanding everyone to give you an answer isn't how a board works. Relax, you're fine.
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Originally Posted By: Virtual_Star
Asking for everyone to give you an answer isn't how a board works. Relax, you're fine.
Enough said, really.He used a spermicide condom, and he peed. Urine kills sperm. Spermicide kills sperm. You're really in no danger.
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If it makes you feel better: I agree with Virtual Star.
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I am so sorry, I did not know that demanding something had the word PLEASE in it. I have just noticed on a lot of the other posts for questions there are many reply's. I was just asking for some other people's imput.
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Originally Posted By: velvetOk, come on people, I know there have been a lot of views on this so please, can I get more than one post to my question? Unless everyone agrees with the posting and that I am in no danger of being pregnant. That's fairly demanding... No please in it either..Just saying
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It's now been a week since your original post. Where are you in your cycle? Everything you posted, while reckless, does not seem in itself to indicate a problem. There are no guarantees in life.
Virtual Star knows what she is talking about and those of us who have been around for a while know that. That's probably why you didn't get a bunch of responses saying "Yeah, she's right." -
RainNightBlue, does it not say "I know there have been a lot of views on this so PLEASE" in the first sentence? I wasn't being demanding. I just thought some people could help. I am sorry that I ever posted anything in the first place. I didn't know that it would be like this. That was my first and last question, besides that is the first time of being RECKLESS with SEX.
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Thanks :wink: