yesterday,my parents had a fight. nothing new there, my family is going through a real rough patch lately, so they have plenty of fights.
but this one was different.in all the other fights they've had that i've heard (when they yell, they're loud) they've never even gone near the subject of devorce or one of them leaving.but in this one my mom actually said the words "thats it. i can't live like this anymore! I'm taking the boys and going to my dads house! now move your damn van,i'm not driving that piece of shit 365 miles!"
and my dad said "fine. GO! see if i care! but what will we tell bonnie and danny? their BBQ is today."
so then he barged into my room(i was pretending to be asleep) and said get ready for the bbq".
while i getting dressed,i heard my dad say the word devorce.
today, everything seemed normal again, so i'm hoping it was just a really bad fight,but i'm not sure.
anyway,i just needed to vent that,but if anyone wants to comment,go ahead.
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So fucking scared!
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People often say things they don't mean in a fight, and probably they don't intend to do what they said at the moment - but it certainly sounds like they are in a rough patch. Unfortunately there's not much you can do. When they are not in a fight you could suggest they get some counselling, pointing out that the fighting is good for no-one.
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i had to hear that shit everyday, until ive been staying with my boyfriend for the last two weeks. i know what its like. if you feel the need to know if they ARE divorcing, talk to them about it. im pretty dumb for staying away from it, but right now i dont care.