hey,i find it hard to get an erection. im 15, and porn bores me. i used to fantasize about girls i knew, but that doesnt do it anymore. i tried looking at gay stuff, weird positions, fetish stuff, nothing turns me on really. if im watching porn i wont suddenly get an erection. ill have to jack my flaccid dick for a little while and fantasize WHILE watching porn. and, even then, its not that easy. i guess when im fantasizing about a girl i know, my brain tells me its not a likely situation that i would sleep with her, same goes with when i fantasize about being with a pornstar. this is such a problem that i have to rush my wanking. i come ASAP. i cant stop and go because its so hard to sustain an erection when im not super turned on. and my dick is never super rock hard, its just hard enough to jack. also, once or twice like a year ago i have came prematurely while jacking. am i gonna be impotent? and how do i make myself more aroused?
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Hard to get hard
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and porn bores me. That's the problem with media. You become desensitized to the images you see. Why do you think people complain about violence on TV and movies???? becasue it doesn't phase you when you see people getting killed anymore. We're all zombies who need more and more to be able to take us to the next level. It's kind of like a drug addict... the stuff no longer gives you that high, so you need more and more... Same principle......Welcome to the modern world.
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I don't know, sdp. There's such a difference between pictures and the real thing. And in the real world guys can keep on getting hard for their wives even after many years.I wonder if it's depression.
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so, im never going to be able to get hard really quick ever again?
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Yeah, but he's talking about porn... visual images. The novelty tends to wear off the more you view something.
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My advice is just dont beat one off for a while. If you leave it long enough I assure you the novelty will be back
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I'm with the possum on this one. Why not let laying penises lie?
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I think possum and th eothers have hit the nail ont he head so to speak. Porn and even mental imagery are not doing it anymore and your member is probably getting more attention than it really needs. So lay off for a month - no masturbation, no sex, etc., and see if that doesn't cause things to pop up more easily
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Yeah, just let the sperm build up then your body will be like "OMFG LET IT OUT!!".
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this is a weird situation..i would talk to my parents about that if i were really coucerned about that..
but i think its natural and you will get your hard dick when you really need it