ok, i was just asking which was right. Amanda said the "can be" common, and Cool said that vibrators, no, but fingers are. So, that's what i was asking.
Um, as for snooping in his room, I don't know if you read my earlier posts, cuz it has it in there. I first went in there looking for our cats. That's when i saw the massager and took it. He came and "snooped" in my room looking for it and he took it (I wasn't sure if he was the one who took it, but was assuming). So, yes, I went back in his room looking for it, to see if he was the one who took it. I wasn't sure it was him, I thought maybe my mom took it. People are always comin in my room, so people "snoop" in mine. When I couldn't find it anywhere else in the house, I went back in his room. I was standing there thinking about where it could be, when i saw the gray cord. It was in the far corner of his bed, under pillows and a blanket. So, I found it...but I also found a rather nasty pillow.
As for posting things on here...what is wrong about that? You all do not know me or my brother, so what is the harm? It's not like I'm really embarrassing him! This site is called "afraid to ask" so I'm asking things, that I wouldn't have asked anyone else. What is with that?
I mentioned up there, the encounter of my brother asking where the massager was. I told him to use his hand. I have no problem with letting him masterbate in private...just don't use the family's massager. That's what I'm saying. He can masterbate all he wants as long as it's not involving anyone else. Using the massager, effects anyone else who uses it, not knowing that he shoves this thing on his ass. His masterbating in front of my 7 year old sister, or in front of anyone unwilling to watch, is not right. It was just a little freaky realizing what he was doing with it. It's just another thing to add to his list.