hey well i live in austin texas well we had foreplay and this is wut happened. we started to have sex with a trojan ribbed condom. it was ok lubricated. after about 30 seconds it got dry and we had to put lube. but by that time the mood was gone. so i just fingered her. now her pussy is hurting and when she pees it hurts and its red kinda. i think its cuz the condom was dry. wut is happening!! im scared its a std but we are both first time partners and were virigins when we met wtf is wrong..she is so scared.
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Problems with my gf
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My friend, you're not going to figure out what's wrong, here. Your girl needs to visit a clinic. It could very well be simple irritation, or it could be an allergic reaction to the spermicide or the lube. Don't guess--find out!Best!
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yea but i was just wondering because if she goes to the clinic with her mom .. and they tell her shes not a virgin then im screwed. just hoping that someone with enough knowledge knows whats wrong
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Sorry...but why can't she go to a clinic with you?
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long story but just know that she cannot right now..shes had this before but not this severe..i would say she had it twice in the last 1 1/2 years?
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long story but just know that she cannot right now..shes had this before but not this severe..i would say she had it twice in the last 1 1/2 years?
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long story but just know that she cannot right now..shes had this before but not this severe..i would say she had it twice in the last 1 1/2 years?
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long story but just know that she cannot right now..shes had this before but not this severe..i would say she had it twice in the last 1 1/2 years?
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Well, she definitely needs to go to a clinic...and she needs to tell the doc she'd rather her sexual history wasn't discussed with her mother if it isn't directly related to the current problem. I think that might keep things on the down-low.
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i see i see..but in a honest opinoon would you say she caught an STD or yeast infection? or do you think its just a minor irritation? because i just asked my uncle whos a doctor in training about it and he said that it might be due to the condom. i mean come on the point of a condom is safe sex right? why is this happening???!?! sorry guys just frustrated right now
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Sounds like an allergic reaction to the latex, or she just wasn't lubricated enough. She might have even been allergic to the lubrication that you put on.
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I don't think we can tell. If there's a bad smell and perhaps some thick discharge it would probably be yeast. But it could be yeast without that, or it could be an allergy to something (condom, lubricant, etc), or just rubbing due to not enough lubrication.
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besides latex condoms there are other types? oh i forgot to mention..i did finger her kind of ruff. I found her g spot and started to go crazy and then im pretty sure i hard massaged her clit. this also might play a factor but i wanna see if any other ladies have had this before from fingering to hard
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Polyurethane condoms are a good alternative to latex. I haven't found any of these that are bigger than regular size though.
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Well I have a FUNNY situation that might put this one to rest! Ask your gf if it felt like a knot! got red and sore. I went to the emergency room with that one! The doctor laughed and told my huspand that it was a contusion to put ice on it and not play so rough and use lube next time! hope this helps!
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LOL! Okay, I guess that story flies in the face of the stereotype that sex stops when marriage starts! To the OP: Hey, texas, quit guessing and take her to someone who won't have to. Some of the posters here may have medical credentials (I'm not one), but no one is going to be able to tell what the problem is without an examination. However, I will say that even with my limited knowledge of medicine, and STD is unlikely if you were both virgins when you met and each have only been with the other.Best of luck and let us know how things turn out!
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sorry im a geek this totally the wrong place but how do i start a new thread! cant find the damn button nywhere!sorry again but can some1 please direct me
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Go to the index page of the appropriate forum. After the ad at the top, and a bar with links to the Main Index and Search etc, there's a bar that has the name of the forum on the left, and a number of links on the right. The first link on the right is "Post". Click that.
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haha! thanks alot. sorry again for screwing up this thread!