Problem

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so yeah me and my girlfriend have been goin out for almost 4 mths, well my prob is that she came over last sat. to hang out for the day. everything was great till she told me that she used to be bi and that she used to date girls and whatever she said that she hasnt done that for a year and a half for reasons mostly haveing to do with religion and that she didnt want to be a part of that anymore and other stuff . i dont know i just feel like that i dont know her anymore i still like her a whole lot, kinda betrayed i guess, that i just cant up and leave her. i was totally shocked, i mean here i am sittin here having a great day with my great girlfriend and bam kick to the groin, pratcilly. its kinda weired knowin that your girlfriend is attracted to women also. she said that she doensnt want to be apart of that anymore and that she still wants to be with me and all. I told her that i wanted to be together with her no matter what and i also told her that she shoulndt be dating me cause its considered right and that it isnt what she wants. she said that she wants to be with me, i dont know im just kinda freakin out and dont know what i should do i like her to much to care about what happened in the past as long as she is doin what she wants to do and i also know that it took her alot of courage to tell me and that im glad that she did and i respect her for it.

Hey, so long as you know that she likes you then what does it matter. She probably didn't mention it previously because she didn't want people knowing, but I doubt she was just not telling you to go behind your back. My last girlfriend also said she thought she was bi, and that kind of freaked me out, but to be honest now that I look back it really wasn't a big deal.

Why would you feel betrayed by something that's never happened in the time you've been together? It's not as if she has cheated on you. Have you told her about how you really feel about this?

Sounds like you have a pretty good girl. The honest ones are the best.

i know im was just freakin out and stuff and yes i told how i felt about it its not that i really felt betrayed just kinda like i didnt know her kinda i dont know how to explain it but everything is fine now we hung out today everything was back to normal and were goin on just fine and yes im glad that i found an honest one and im glad that she could trust me enough to tell me