One for the guy's. When you find a girl that you would like to marry. How important is it that she stay a virgin till the wedding night.
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VIRGINS
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i think it depends on who shed b sleeping with between then and the wedding nite. my bf n i hav tlkd bout it n i said ideally id love to wait cuz i kno that its him that im gona b with (wer both virgins) n he respects that,but at the same time niether of us can wait to b together (long distance relationship has a lot to do with that tho)
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Considering the average person has about 8 sexual partners in their lifetime it's really fucking unreasonable to expect that the person you marry will have remained a virgin -- ESPECIALLY IF YOU AREN'T A VIRGIN.
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I'd rather you used the words "unfucking reasonable"...it somehow fits better when discussing virgins. BTW, it's not as unreasonable as you think...it depends greatly on what kind of person you marry. Certainly not on how many partners you yourself have had...unless she/he was one of them.
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it's not that important to me...i mean in theory you cant make someone not have sex. so why worry about the things you have no control over. i mean it would be nice if your virgin girl would stay a virgin til marriage. but even in the "olden-days" they had to marry their girls off young. so that's why most brides were vigins. given, if the girls had to wait til they were eighteen, or somethign like that, they probly would be like most of the girls in modern times and not wait for sex til they're married. seeing how before girls didnt have a chance to get tempted as much as they do now.
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Oh puh-lease. Okay, I'm likely to offend some people here, but I'm going to say this anyway: I've never been with a virgin and I wouldn't want to. Look at it this way: would you pick somebody to drive you around for the rest of your life if they'd never previously even put a car key in an ignition? I seriously doubt it. I might not ask for references in that situation, but I'd damn sure be paying attention the first time they took me out, and I certainly wouldn't sign any kind of binding contract until I knew I was going to like the ride.Personal opinion, maybe.
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I'd say it all depends on what the woman wants. Because it's not bad to have sex. Because these days people have sex for fun, not saying that, that is right. But everyone is differnt, go with what SHE thinks. And, if you agree of course.
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I find its a stupid ideal to hold anyone to.Beside that, I like that my woman had been with a few guys before me, now she knows shes with the best, and that she doesnt always have to wonder what shes missing out on sexually by being with me and not sampling the goods of all the guys she could have.Iv had virgins, I dont much like them.They ruin my sheets, one cried, all of htem whined, and not one of them was worth a shit in bed. I prefer to have fun sex, not some bullshit, just to get my dick wet sex, I like it when it feels good and shes had a bit of an education in it.
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LOL! Give the kid a break, grav, he's a self-proclaimed 13-year-old...he'll figure it out...like everyone else.
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And thus the reason God invented Middle-Age hookers!
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so true, yea, i dont really think it matters that much