I've been with my long-distant gf that i have never met and never will for a long long time (year and 3 quarters) and i have finally come to my senses that i should finish the relationship and stop wasting my time with her, (shes evil but thats another story.)My problem is i never eeeevvver get to talk to her anymore its been 2 weeks since i last heard from her (first it was a week then another then another then 2 and now another 2 weeks everytime i talk to her for a day on msn then another wait) and now i dont know how to break up with her, i aint phoning her and i aint textin her so im gona email her and if she actually gives a damn she will contact me and i can explain, but i just dont know what to say in the email without sounding to cold.I was thinking of just "This aint workin out..." and hope she sees it and decides to contact me or leave it.What do you think?P.s. sorry if my paragraphs are too big
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Advice on breaking up
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Well, breaking up with her is way easier when you email. And seeing that it is a long-distance relationship and you've never met her in person, then you can easily tell her that its over. I don't think you sound too cold.
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ThanksI can finally get this load off my shoulders
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No problem, but you should also give her a reason in the email of why it isn't working out.
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She can always email me back if shes bothered, she hasnt been bothered to contact me for two weeks so maybe shes expecting it
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yea, if you've never met her than it will be easy to say "its not working out" or the clasic "i'm gay"
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Well she might be extremely busy or troubled about something. If when you do talk, shes a bitch and such as well, send her an email, ask her whats up. You may think youve fallen out of sync with her when it could just be the not talking so much. So ask her whats up dont just dump her outright not even bothering to try to work it out. Great relationships dont just happen and stay there they need work , especially long distance. What you need to figure out is if its worth the work.If you feel totally smitten with her when you do talk then not so much the following times when shes not talking then ask her where shes been and figure it out. If its all gone and your absolutely sure the relationship is dead, shoot it again to make sure.
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yea, if you've never met her than it will be easy to say "its not working out" or the clasic "i'm gay" Smooth, very smooth LOL
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Yes!! Haha, use the classic "I'm Gay" Everyone buys that!Smooth...
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yea, if you've never met her than it will be easy to say "its not working out" or the clasic "i'm gay"Haha!! And in response to Dantek, well it really feels like shes just not bothering to contact me i mean how hard is it to pick up your phone and send a quick text saying the slightest thing.Besides this relationship is a joke its been a year and a half, the first year she totally treated me like crap and i was too weak to do anything about it and when i managed to get strong all we do is fight and disagree with everything, and everytime an oppurtunity comes to meet something comes up last second on her end which stops it.Drives me insane, thers no way i want to stay in this relationship.
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Don't answer if this is too personal a question, but how the hell can you get into a relationship with someone you've never met? If it were me, I'd just say I'm horny and want a root. Seriously. I know other aspects of a relationship are far more important, but I still need physical intimacy, not just sex, I like to cuddle, kiss, and hold my partner when I sleep. Without it I couldn't have a relationship.
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well if shes been crap from the start, then kick her ass to the curb. If she's made no attempt to better herself after a years time especially then either way its not good, either she doesnt give a fuck so kick her to the curb or she doesnt no jack shit about you or how you feel so the relationship isnt worth much to begin with so dump her