dont think im a pervert but me and my girlfreind have been dating for about a month or a few weeks what would be the best way to try to get her to have sex?
well, aside from all the old lines about loving here and needing her to show you she loves you by having sex (which usually wind up either parting ways or having sex and parting ways), there's not a lot you should do to rush it. In fact, patience is a virute even when it comes to sex which some don't consider very virtuous. And at the risk of being accused of using old cliches, remember, all good things will come in time.
Basically, when the time comes for two people to get into sex, it will happen naturally and comfortably. And when it does happen that way, you both will be more relaxed and some of those first time jitters won;t cause problems like so many other guys have because of all the tension and expectations they create over sex.
So, keep enjoying your self-pleasure and keep doing things together and give yourself and her time.
LOL... Yup.. you're a pervert for wanting sex. LOL
Chuck makes a very good point that pushing it is not only dubious ethically, but also tends to strain or break the relationship.