Hey I'm new here and I have a question. Theres a girl I really like, but I'm can't think of the right way to let her know how I feel. I dont wanna come straight out and say "I really like you" or something similar because I'd sound like an idiot. We just met a few weeks ago, and have a few classes together and we've been hanging out recently so its not like she's some random girl that I dont know. any advice?
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Need some advice
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i think that you should tell her how you feel. a women LOVES an honest and open man
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I think Helmsman is right here, I think "I'm really glad I met you/we got to meet" or something along those lines speaks volumes. Any female can decode a statement like that, believe me! Also sometimes a little bit of mystery is a lot more enticing that somebody flinging themselves at your feet!
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thanks alot for the help. I'll let you guys know what happens.
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yea..i wish guys had the balls to say sumthing like that 2 me...turns out they dont as im still single.....etha that or im secretly very ugly ans i just dont no it yet
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CuteNCrazy, belive me on this one, most guys arent like the ones you see on tv's and movies who pull out romantic lines out of no where, theyre cowards! well not all of them but it does take some balls to ask a girl out. I usually dont feel comfortable asking a girl to go on a date(or how i feel) until ive known her for a while, otherwise if I get shut down its akward when I see her again. It takes some time, at least for me. I really like this girl though, so its either now or never, I just have to go for it. I cant tell you how many times theres been someone who I had my eyes on and then some other guy comes along and takes her.
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oh yea! us guys are, for the most part, petrified to ask gals out, least all my VERY SINGLE friends are. six guys I hang out with every day and not one of them has ever had a GF, well, i havent either...so...
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I look at it this way. If I walk into a coffee shop, chill out there for a little bit, and I see a good looking woman that seems really nice to the people she talks to... chances are I probably won't see her again unless I go up to her, make some small chit chat, and invite her out or possibly score a number. So, basically, you've already lost by not acting. Rejection? Men should get used to it. That's just my feeling about it.