Help

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I don't know how to start. So i'll just go out and say it.I made a post a few months back asking for help because my girlfreind thought that i liked her sister. Well we talked and she got over it. Or so i thought. Today we got in an arguement with her constantly asking why did i like her. I couldn't remeber the reason. But she didnt belive me.So after a little bit it seems like it's ok, then she starts again. She's trying to guess why. And she finally said "Was it because that one night we all went out she was over you and i wasn't", and then i started thinking. That was the reason.Now i didnt expect my grilfreind to be all over me. Because this was one of the first times we went out together. So she's thinking that i've never loved her.And it's killing me. She doesn't seem to be bothered by it, thought i know she is. And i've just felt like shit today.What should i do . . .

It sounds like she has insecurity issues. It's not likely you can fix them - it's something she has to work on.

i agree. my last girlfriend had issues with insecurity, and as much as i tried she just wouldnt give it up. It's just something she has to deal with on her own.

yep, insecurity plays a big role in this type of confrontation. I've seen it so often with friends and their "other half". In some cases it's so bad that if one of a couple looks sideways at another person, all of a sudden their gf/bf isn't good enough or attractive enough or sexy anough or whatever. All comes down to maturity and accepting that you are the best person you can be and your gf/bf likes you for who you are ...

Ah ok thanks everyone.

One thing i hate about this is. She would never think about it if it wasn't for her bullshit freinds. There always going around her saying "He doesn't love you" or "He think's your a bitch". Now that doesnt bother her anymore. But what i hate is how when she talks about them saying that it always turns into her talking about me like that.

She's not trying to be mean. It just bother's her.

her firends sound dumb and bitchy...but what can u do really..........

Yeah i guess your right. But she's ok now, we talked about it last night.

yay, good 4 u guys!