My girlfriend only enjoys strictly clitoral stimulation, she tells me that she doesnt enjoy it at all when i masturbate her by penetration. My question is, will this prevent her from enjoying sex when we decide to do it?
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Will she enjoy it?
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There's no way to tell for sure, but maybe you're just not hitting her "spots". Are you aware of the G-spot and that you can't just hammer away with your fingers expecting her to come? Technique is important, here. Ultimately, I seriously doubt you'll fail to please her when you two decide to have sex, but you have to remember that you're going to have to stimulate her in the proper ways and most women don't climax during their first sexual encounter...whereas most guys climax as soon as they take there dick out in the presence of a willing woman.
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No, actually, i know quite a bit about the g-spot, i had a previous girlfriend who was exactly opposite to my current one, she got no pleasure from clitoral stimulation but had moaning, screaming orgasms from penetration. I've tried every spot inside of her to find a spot that she enjoys and havent found a single one, im only afraid that if she gets no pleasure from penetration with fingers, why would sex be any different?
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Damn...that's a tough one. At this point, I would try to be certain the first time you have intercourse you make sure she's on top--not an easy thing with some women--and hit her clit hard while she's riding you. I only suggest this positioning because of the difficulty using one hand actively while trying to balance and satisfy at the same time. Is this girl aware of your concerns? If not, tell her and that may make her climbing on top a little easier.
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Thanks...I appreciate the help.
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I understand how your girlfriend feels, i was the same way before i had sex. fingering never did anything for me. initially, sex didn't really do it either, but every time it got a bit better, and now i'm like a rabbit >< having her on top initially would be a mistake, i think. personally, i tried being on top my second time, and it was uncomfortable and hurt a bit. i got used to it after a while, and now it's quite happy. well, hope that helps ^^
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I second nushi.. She's right about the her being on top thing. Let her get comfy with the other position first.Anyway, I know plenty of woman who don't enjoy fingering. I don't mean clitoral stimulation (cause we love it) but just finger insertion. It wasn't very comfortable for me. The guy wasn't the problem, since I've had many boyfriends trying it before. Actual penis vagina penetration was awesome though, so don't worry about it.
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Well heres a question for the ladies? And maybe some help for you.Hope this isn't a stupid question but when ur man is going down on u how many give concurrent stimulation with the finger/S to your G spot? So basically licking and fingering at the same time. My girlfriend cums like an olympic athlete when i provide multiple stimulation.Maybe u can try this..just be gentle at first and she'll tell you when its time to speed up
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My boyfriend likes to stick his fingers everywhere