now i dont know if this is the place to post this if it is not maybe someone could tell me and answer my question so i dont have to ask this and get into trouble again anyway one of my moms friends and her family were doing on vacation at the end of the summer and they asked me if i would take care of there dog and cat for 2 weeks well one time was looking around the house of course not snooping but i went up stairs and found there daugters room i know her from school anyway something came over me and i wasnt the same person i looked in the drawers and found her panties i really couldnt control myself i wasnt trying to look but somthing made me i ran out to the down stairs after that and i was scared and shocked my heart was pounding that happend a couple times in that time is that wrong
yes it is wrong. They trust you enough and you go around and look in the girls room. Stay out of their room. it's none of your business. How would you feel if someone went through your room and looked at your underwear?
it's wrong but it's also normal to be overcome with curiosity. It's human nature.
You really do need to respect their privacy and their trust though.
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What's done is done, no harm no foul.
If your asking is it normal to get a cheap thrill out of looking at, handling, whatever some girls underwear. The answer is, at your age, yes, it is most probably normal.
What is important is that from this point on you realize, as I'm sure you already do, that it is wrong to go rifle somebody's underwear drawer for a cheap thrill. Is that little thrill worth what would happen if you somehow got caught, I'm sure it's not. Exercise a little self control and don't do it again.
If you feel that you will give into temptation or can't control yourself, don't put yourself in that situation again. If her family asks you to look after their house while they're away and you think you even, might, be digging in the underwear drawer, then simply tell them you can't do it. Just make up an excuse and avoid tempting yourself.
Here's a little rule that will make life much easier in the long run.
Stay out of other people's underwear unless you are expressly invited in, whether they are wearing them or not.
There is no punishment. There is no reward. There are only consequences.