My problem is weird. Its not urgent. I am 18 and am circumsized. And I am able to masterbate and have sex frequently. But, if I do either too many times in a week or in a day, or rarely if I just do it once my frenum (or whatever the name of the skin that attaches the shaft to the head) and the skin under the head going around to the left gets very read and irritated. Sometimes after sex or masterbation I hardly walk it bothers me so much. It eventually goes away. Its been like this ever since i started masterbating. It never really hurts during either activity unless its the seconds time in a day. Sometimes even burns during sex, I am guessing because the skin is sensitive. (Background: I was poorly circumsized and had a scab on my penis for a while, but I don't know where...) What is this? Is there any ointment I can use to make it heal (it is always red, just not always sensitive)? And will this effect my ability to have kids? Then also I am in an open relationship with my girlfriend now who I had dated for 11 months and lost my virginity to. I have only done most of my sexual activities with her. And only one other girlfriend I messed around with. But, now I had the opportunity to have sex with another woman and I couldn't do it, I couldn't get hard. Maybe i was too nervous, but all I could think about is my girlfriend and how I want her. What could i do about this (its less of an issue to me, I bet i'll get over it eventually...)? Thanks for your help!!!
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I need help....
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Welcome to A2A, Jader1337. I don't know why your frenulum and nearby skin are irritated so easily. Have you tried using an anti-fungal cream there? I'm wondering if there might be, for example, a low-grade yeast infection there. Any cream for tinea or jock itch or ringworm should be fine - you may have some in the house, or you can buy it at a pharmacy without prescription.Whatever it is, I can't see that it would affect your ability to have kids. Sex once a day gives you the best chance of conception, and more often isn't necessary (and less often can still give a good chance).Not getting hard because you were thinking about your girlfriend just shows how much you love her.
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two things: Could I have had a yeast infection this long and not known about it? And also are there any risks of me using those creams if i didn't have a yeast infection?O and also, what if I want to be having sex with other women? I do love her. But I feel that I am too young to only be having sex with one woman for the rest of my life. Is there anything I can do to help me just be more sexual? Would it be insane if I used like viagra or something like it?
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if u use 1 of those creams but do need it, nothing bad will happen im sure. it will b finesounds like urve already made up ur mind kinda bout the older woman. i cant really b expected to settle down if ur not in that stage of ur life yet.and useing viagra when u dont need it is bad 4 u
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ok... that didn't really help. Could you rephrase that in better english (that was 4 cute and crazy)
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CuteNCrazy was saying (correctly) that using an antifungal cream won't hurt you at all, even if it turns out not to be the right treatment, but it's not good to use Viagra if you don't need it. (Answering your other question, it's quite common for males to have a yeast infection and not know it.)
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ok, wtf was wrong with what i said? it made perfect scence to me
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I think he was asking that you not use textspeak. It's hard to read.
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ahhhh i c....i mean i see. hehegod i dont even notice im doing it anymore...makes scence to me tho
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ok i think your being a little mean. i understand what your saying but it is a little harsh.i apologise for my posting though because i know that i shorten things a lot - its just habit now because the only way i can communicate with friends at home is via sms or msn
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Written communication will soon be a thing of the past. We're regressing to a high-tech version of grunts and snorts.
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back to caveman days eh?
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Dorothy Sayers made similar complaints about telegraphese some time in the first half of the twentieth century but in fact it died a rapid death.
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MOURNING DEATH OF LANGUAGE STOP MISS PUNCTUATION STOP WOE IS ME STOPYoungters weren't telegraphing each other all day long, though. For many kids, the IMing never stops.
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The "telegraphese" she was talking about was a fashion among magazine writers and some newpaper reporters, especially used in headlines, captions and other short pieces. It involved leaving out all words that were felt to be unnecessary because the reader could work them out.
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well im sorry if it makes me seem "uneducated and ignorant " because im not. i have far abouve average intellegance for people my age and im one of the least ignorant people i know. its a shame that your not going to bother listening to what i have to say because i like to think my advice is usually realonably valid and descent and i find the idea of being ignored when i take the effort to TRY and give my advice and help to someone very frustrating. i dont like having my oppinions dismissed because of someones impression of me, whether it be this or how i look, im sick of that crap.one reason for the way i type is also i happen to have pretty shite spelling which, as my english teachers have pointed out, is a huge shame because people are less likely to take what i write seriously even tho i have very good ideas and writing style. so you not bothering to read it does kinda upset me.whatever, its your choicei will however make an effort to go over my posts and fix any mistakes. thanks i guess, ill try and take it as constructive critisism ...even if i dont see it that way.
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CheersI have Been making an effort. See Capital letters and everything.lolHmmm, i wonder if there are any teenagers who appreciate being called a "kid" though.Im officially an adult in 3 days I appreciate it and your right, the text writing dosn't exactly help the whole spelling thing
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It's funny. I can appreciate how a teenager would feel that "I worked hard taking all that life has thown at me to become an adult and no longer a kid." Fast forward a few years and you take it as a compliment to be called a kid.Conrats on your impending birthday and thanks for the efforts to "standardize" your posts. Now everyone will be able to understand all the great points you have to make.
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about how long should it take (if it is a yeast infection) how long should it take if I am using lotrimin ultra twice to three times a day. how many days should it take?
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If it's a yeast infection I think you should see an improvement within three days (but you should keep using it for two weeks). If you haven't seen any improvement in that time it's probably not a yeast or other fungus.