My boyfriend got drunk

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I feel crushed, my boyfriend got drunk[among other things]and a girl came to the party he was at. She kissed him, and he stopped her, along with his friends, and when she tried to give him her number, he declined. Here's the IM if you would like to read it..

bored to boredom: baby..i love u soooooooo much nad i dont deserve u
like bad dreams: WHAT!
like bad dreams: you deserve the world! if I could buy the world, you'd have it bby
bored to boredom: no...trust me i dont
like bad dreams: what's wrong?
bored to boredom: nuthing...i juist feel like shit
bored to boredom: just*
like bad dreams: did you do something bad?
bored to boredom: no
like bad dreams: i won't get mad, promise, you can tell me
like bad dreams: i don't like when yr down:-(
bored to boredom: u should just leave me now
like bad dreams: no, tell me.. why won't you tell me? did you go out with someone else?
bored to boredom: no....the night we were drunk...a girl came over..we were alll there and chillin..and like alter on she kissed me
bored to boredom: but i didnt tell u
like bad dreams: why would you not tell me?
bored to boredom: i love u soo much...and i dont deserve u
like bad dreams: did you do anything else? just tell me now, please
like bad dreams: i don't want to find out later
bored to boredom: no...
bored to boredom: no
bored to boredom: i stopped her..
bored to boredom: and cory wouldnt let it go further
bored to boredom: niether would i..i love u..and i cant lose u...
like bad dreams: honestly... i want the truth, please say you are telling me the truth:-(i love you so much, I don't want this to be like the last relationship please baby
bored to boredom: im gonna call u..

ah! haha Sorry, I got caught up I guess. Is it possible to work things out? I'm not of a forgiving nature, but I just don't want things to be different, even though they will be. What do I tell him? I want this to work out, and he does too. It's so hard to decide:(

Unforgiving? Sheesh.. It wasn't he who came onto the girl, it was the other way around. Give the guy a break and quit being such a hardnose.

I agree with sdp and Helms. He didn't do anything wrong.

hell you should buy him a car lol, he was drunk and he still spurned her advances, did he tell you how she managed to kiss him? i sincerely doubt you have anything to be worried about whatsoever

Just be careful fembot...those who find it hard to forgive others are those who others will find it hard to forgive. And it sounds like he did pretty good for being drunk.

He didn't do a thing wrong. If I were you I'd tell him just that and then thank his mate too. He sounds like a good friend.Don't fuck it up, there's nothing to be pissed off about, he can't help it if hes hot and girls like to try and come on to him

hey, if this guy loves you so much he can get drunk, have a girl come on to him and still push her away, he's a damnd fine catch, i wouldnt be mad at him, hell, I'd be proud of him.

What's there to work out or forgive him for? He didn't hit on her. He spurned her advances. He did all the right things. Maybe it is you who should apologize to him for reading the situation the wrong way and making an issue out of him being loyal to you. Sorry if that sounds harsh but I don't see anything in what you posted to indicate he did anything wrong; only that you got upset over another girl finding your bf of interest and throwing herself at him. If anyone owes anyone an apology it is the girl; she owes both of you a big apology for the way she acted.

Agreed, 100%.