Help Me Please!

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Ok. So Theres this girl in my Class I really Like. But im like really Nervous to ask her... I have thought about getting a friend to do it for me because i am really scared/nervous. so what should I Do? Get A friend or overcome my fear and do it myself?

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some people dont reply because they dont know what to say. patience my dear!!!anyways, dont be too scared to talk to her. its nice for the guy to talk to the girl,instead of getting someone else to do it for them. dont get someone to do it hunn!!! do it yourself,it makes you look brave instead of being afraid to talk to her. ask her to go to a mivoe or somthing and see what she says.

lmao. sorry I just wanted to possibly do it tommorow. =( Yes but the problem with me being scared is that I have NEVER talked to her but have known her since 5th Grade.

I agree, don't get a friend to do it. It shows that you arn't confident. Just go up to her and maybe talk to her for a bit then be like, Would ya like to go get a bite to eat?Something a long those lines.

well theres a first time for everything. there was this one guy i liked since i was in 5th grade but i never got the guts to talk to him..im not complaining cuz he was a jerk tho. better late then never!! get the guts to talk to her. youll feel so much more confident and better about yourself!! the worse thing she can say is no. and theres always monday to talk to her again!!

well wait, if you havent talked to her, how do you know you like her? if youve never talked to her and dont really know her, id suggest getting to know her a little better before asking her out, see if shes worth a damn

as to seeing if she likes him through a friend, why is it necessarily cowardice? i mean you wouldnt go into battle without knowing your opponent would you? if he were to have a friend see if she likes him or not that would save him the humiliation and heartbreak as well as her having to reject him (that is, assuming she gives a rip)

I know her likes and stuff because she always yells em out in class. lmao. and there is another reason im nervous too. today in class she said to me and my friend that somebody was hitting on her in art class. so if this is true and she likes him...

id still say get to know her a little better before asking her out

Mwuhahahaha I came up with an Idea.... Ok Heres My Plan:Talk to her,get to know her betterand then ask her to the halloween dance

wel l there ya go

Definatly don't get a friend to talk to her about it, she's much less likelt to take it seriously and more likely to turn you down. Be confident

We all know it's rough, but you've gotta do it yourself. I know that the terminal shyness that most of us have in our teens tells us that if we don't ask, she can't tell us "no" and we don't get rejected. The problem with that is if we don't ask, she can't say "yes" either. Girls usually are just as interested as guys in going out, so if you are even remotely her type the odds are in your favor.Still, there's no harm in doing a little "scouting" (as in getting to know her better) first...

ok. Now I just dont have a clue on what to say to her... O.o And when i said i'd never talked to her.. that was worded wrong... I Have talked to her but just about her,her friend,my friend and I were altogether.

talk about anything especially neutral topics like the weather, a class you both take or an assignment in the class, halloween, the new way some teacher has their hair donw, how bad/good the food is in the cafeteria, a sport you both like ...The list is endless. Just make normal everyday conversation with here and don't let your 'interest' in her cloud the fact that you are both students in the same school who have lots in common to discuss.

I Forgot one thing - She is ALWAYS with her friend. And I would
feel pretty weird talking to her about stuff with her friend there. lmao

Get to know both of them. Ask them both questions and get them both involved so you feel more comfortable around her friend and the same in reverse. Now personal stuff between you and her like asking her out might be better left until you can find a chance to talk to her one on one, but the more you talk with her casually the easier that'll be.

Most people are interested in people who are interested in them. Ask about her likes and dislikes, and pay attention to the answers. What music, what classes, who and why, etc. Listen to her and let her talk about herself, her history, what her parents are like, whatever. I tell my children that they should come away from any conversation knowing at least as much about the person they were talking to as that person now knows about them.