i am 13 and i am not sure if i am gay. yesterday we had p.e and we did football. When we came back everyone was wet cause it was raining. most of the 'fit guys' stripped to thier boxer. they were really tight fitting and almost see through. i kept looking as you could see the shape of their dick. i am not sure if i am gay or if i was just curious of their size? please help!
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I think you are just curious about your body and others'. As you are just 13, it is normal that you want to know more about yourself, your friends and the world. Don't force yourself to classify yourself into a particular group or any sexual orientation. Just be yourself and try to know more about yourself without putting pressure onto your mind.
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thanks
also my second best mate is really fit. the other day in p.e we were getting changed and the button on his trouseres popped open and out flopped his dick. i am going on a school trip and as we are the only boys on it we get a room to ourselves. i really want to give him a blowjob. i just want to do it so i know what it feels like. i won't do it again. any ideas on how i could ask him if i was allowed? -
He didn't wear any underwear? Or is he always wanting to show off?I have no experience of giving nor receiving a blowjob. But as I have read some posts in this forum, it was said that it is normal for a teenager to explore his own body and know more about himself through experimenting with his buddies (male friends).There are many people here who have that kind of experience. I think they can give you some advice. For me, as I read before, I think you can just talk about something about sex or masturbation, and then see if he is interested. If he is interested, you may ask him whether he would mind if you jack off (or give him a blowjob).Of course the same plan may not work everytime. You have to see his reaction. If he shows that he is disgusted, you should not go for the next step as it may hurt your friendship.
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you might be bi, or, gay..and, it's not to early to tell because i had my first crush on a guy in like 3rd grade..(first female crush in 2nd)
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Psychologists have said that's not possible to decide your sexuality at 13 because you're under the influence of Puberty and hormones and at that age, it's easy enough to be arroused by anything sexual.
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Maybe suggest doing that electric toothbrush trick to him or for him. I bet that would open the door of conversation... or get him off!