Covering up

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Do you guys ever try to cover up certain things that you feel self-conscious about? I'm trying my best but it doesn't seem to be working so I'm a little under the happiness right now. I had gone to youth night and after everything they were playing music and whatever. While I was talking to my friend this guy who I didn't even know just said "dang you got a big butt" or whatever. I shrugged it off because that stuff I try not to get to me but his friends were just winking at me which made it even more disturbing. So I was basically pulling down my sweater to cover it the whole day. I'm a petite person I just fill out in places I wouldn't like to and it's annoying. The chest isn't so bad because sweaters do the job and you can always cross over your chest with your arms but you can't just grab your butt that's kind of weird. Anyway... I try not to think about it but I'm just getting a little edgy now. You guys ever try to cover something up or felt "edgy" about certain things?

It's very normal for people to have things about their body that they're self-conscious about. Hopefully people will learn to accept themselves, with all their flaws, as the get older. However, what that guy said was very disrespectful. You need a good comeback, like "*)# &(#), *@@^(#!", or "Damn, you have a small weenie". Or at least an icy glare.It really annoys men that women have to put up with that kind of rude nonsense. Believe me, the issue is not yours.

and adding to the othe rpost, puberty is a time when things get all out of proportion. arms grow before torso or feet seem to decide to wrap themselves aroudn the world or your butt fills out while your waist and legs are still as thin as a McDonalds french fry.
Since there's little you can do about those growing changes and their sequence or results might as well just grin and bare it. Well, not literally bare it but at least don;t waste your time trying to hide what is naturally occuring. Given a little more time things will all start to even out and you will be fine.
As a urther note, if you are filling out too much in some areas and the filling is more fat than anythig then it is time to take a little positive action to control the unwanted weight gains. Bet even there, don;t bother hiding what you have, instead get it under control and when people take a second look in a month or three they will notice a better prortioned you and the comments will be more to yoru liking.

well it's not necessarily fat. I have a fast metabolism and eat more than the average person lol. and I work out alot. well not work out. I walk all around New York, do soccer, track, and dance so I stem it from that. I'm trying to get over it but thanks for the support.

I think a woman with a "caboose" (My self consciousness usually lays on my face entirely.

dont wear those mega tight brazillian pants, if u wear like jeans that arent tight or sweat pants it dont show so much. i have the same prob with my gf, she only wears really tight pants because she says "they feel good" but im pretty sure she just wants a ton of attention from other guys

you couldn't pay me enough to wear those brazilian pants. I'd suffocate in my rear. the thing is I wear sweatpants all the time and loose jeans and it's still very noticeable