Ok, so the only thing I pretty much know of that will help you slow down your orgasm is the stop and go method, which doesn't seem all that helpfull. Can you guys post any other methods that you know, and explain them in detail, thx!
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Well a method I find useful is to not concentrate on what you are doing. Let your thoughts wonder to mundane things. Like mowing the lawn or painting a room.
That works for me as well. If my mind wanders off to other things, then I won't have an orgasm as quick.
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The mind wandering works, but I like to keep my attention on my woman. Instead of start and stop, try start and slow down. Learn to "squeeze" to fight off the urge. Focus on her pleasure and your mind will get off of your pleasure. It is kind of like the mind wandering trick, but at least you are thinking about her. I don't know about you, but when I have sex I want to be 100% into her, not thinking about chores. Also look at the timeline of sex. Don't look at it as you are going to get off. Keep in mind that she must get off first, then it is ok for you. It shows respect for your girl and shows that you care about her pleasure. In return she will want to do whatever you want. If you train your body to let her come first, you will never have a problem lasting. Communication is the key.
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Ok Ricky, If I try to slow down and "squeeze" I just end up cumming. Any advice? I want to get to the point where I wont have to stop and start again.
taking your time and trying different positions works too. Just pull out and change the position and the feeling of cumming should subside...
Read the posts "Increase amounts of cum" and "Biggest, longest lasting orgazms ever". Although they were not started as topics specifically about lasting longer, the jyst of cumming harder is to do so. Read those, and if you have any other questions, just add the posts.
if your just masterbating then i dont think it should matter, but if your with someone, i recomend just masterbate like 45 min- 1 hr before the girl comes over/ or guy if your gay blah blah but yeah and make sure to wash your dick no sperm blah blah but if you try to have sex in under 2 hrs, its very very hard to cum again, it will take you a good while to get it going trust me, speaking from personal experience not sure if it works for anyone really else, sorry.
A variation on the Stop / Go method is the 'Dribbler'
This takes practice, but is well worth it once you learn to master it.
Basically you need to masturbate until you feel your orgasm getting close.
Then slow down to the point when you feel your ejaculation beginning, but not quite at the point of orgasm (there is a slight difference in the timing between the two).
At this point stop altogether.
Semen will be released, but without the power of the orgasm behind it - hence the name 'Dribbler'.
Wait about 30 seconds and then carry on masturbating.
With practice you will be able to increase the number of times you can reach ejaculation before you finally have to give in to letting the orgasm happen (my personal best, so far, is 10 times), but when it happens, boy, does it happen - in fact it's worth making sure you're alone in the house so you can't be heard when you cry out in ecstacy.