Well, at school some of my friends has GF's and some of my girl friends have BF's. Pretty normal. So far I have chosen not to have a girlfriend. Why? At first I didn't know. But now, I don't want one because I think they are a waste of time, and serve no purpose. I asked my friend why he had one, and he said he can't describe it. He said I will eventually just 'know'.So, I am confused. I still see no point in getting a gf, by the way I am 14. As of now, I know I'm young, but I have no intention of getting marries, for that reason.Sure, you can hug, and kiss them, and feel 'loved'. But I don't WANT that. I wouldn't mind it, but I'm not getting a GF just to kiss her :SSo, can anyone help me out here ?
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I dont see a point in girlfriends.
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It sounds like you haven't fallen in love yet. One day it will indeed hit you, but in the meantime enjoy your freedom. Try to enjoy each day as it is, and not worry that it is different for someone else.
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14 eh? Yeah most dating "starts" then. It just depends. One day you're going to really like someone. And might end up going out with them. It can be special, and sometimes it's not. But it's usually a great experience.
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Well there have been times when people are all like "Just go out with her" and I always say no.I just don't get it... When you 'fall in love' do you just suddenly realize all the good points of getting a girlfriend? Why can't anyone explain it, and how do you just 'know' it.I'm so confused.
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Don't do it because someone told you to. I'll have to agree with the other posters. Someday you'll just know.
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Just wait until you are ready. When will that be? You'll know...
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If you havent got a girlfriend because you dont want one it sounds to me like you are living your life as you want to, so whats there to 'help' about?