in case you never knew, 6 months ago today, i buried my grandmother (dads mom), and that night my grandfather (moms dad), died from a heart attack.. i didnt think i was gonna be so depressed about this. im here at my bfs house,hes at work all day,then i have to work tonight. so i cant even really see him. i feel so depressed right now. i cant get over what happened. i keep thinking about it. he died a week after my 18th birthday (we both had the same birthday-april 6th)..my nan died on the 10th of april which was bad enough because i wish i was closer to her..i dont even know why i posted this..i just feel really alone right now.because i literally am and then i have to work...i cant stay home from work because i only got hired a week ago. can someone help me please??? :*(sorry for you having to read this...
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6 months ago...
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Hey sweetie, sorry hear about the tragic events that happened. Best advice I can give you is to take a deep breath and remember the good times with the lost family members. Trust me they wouldn’t want you dwelling on their deaths and feeling sad any longer. They would want you to smile and be happy and remember the good memories.You’re a sweetie for still having such strong emotions of their death, and it’s nice you are open enough to express how you feel... that’s the first step in healing. Just keep your chin up sweetie and know they still love you and are there looking out for you. hugs
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thanks hunn
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im a litle disapointed in only getting one response... *sigh* :frowning:
o well . loves you right much ntroducing!
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WOOO! pick me! I'll respond.
But I'm not that helpful so all I offer is moral support and huggles.
I don't frequent the depression forum thing very much as I find it realyy...depressing.
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hehehewell a hug is all i want right now!! (and glitter of course)...AND NIPPLE TASSELS!! and pink bunnies..and a giant yoshi doll ok ill stop now LOL
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cuddles Ash right i got the glitter, the tassles and the pink bunnies, but i can't for the life of me find the giant yoshi doll hon............anyone lend me one?..............anyone?
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LOL YAY!!i guess im gonna have to get bintherdunthat to dress up as one
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looks through purse Nope, no Yoshi, but I did find a cream egg, a Mars bar, and some leftover glitter from the last party.
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YAY CREME EGG WHOOHOOOOOOOOjumps on Lisa
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I am sorry for not responding when you first put this up, but I thought Eddie gave good advice. I recently had someone very close to me pass away, and honestly just talking about them and the happy times helped me alot.
Angel helped me TONS through that time. *huggles Angel* Not only did she listen to all my crying and venting, but one of her suggestions was to light a candle by a picture of the person that died. I do it all the time. Every time I light the candle, I see this smiling, beautiful picture of her and it makes me feel happy and I get a nice warm feeling all over.
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o wow..thats so pretty. and its ok for not responding. i should do that (the candle thing)..as long as the picture doesnt catch fire..cuz my pop was cremated... o and today was 11 months ago that my kitty died in my arms too.. she died a week after we gave away her kittens,,so now i have nothing, execpt a plushie of her that i NEED to sleep with every night. it looks just like her.