was caught last week by my mom and older sister masturbating and my sister wont stop teasing me. I have avoided my mom cause she works all the time but my sister keeps teasin and asking questions. can anybody help or tell me why she is doing this. tks
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Caught masturbating
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theres a thread in the Masturbation thing kalled "CAUGHT!" you cant miss it
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Welcome to AfraidToAsk, craigboy3400. I think this post does merit a thread here, because you are asking how to understand and handle your sister better.Sometimes people tease because they themselves feel insecure. By putting other people down they feel they are stronger. Sometimes people tease because they are jealous, and feel it's an opportunity to get their own back. Sometimes, unfortunately, they tease just because they enjoy doing it.Not knowing your sister, it's hard to say exactly why she is teasing you in this case. The obvious way to stop her is to catch her doing the same thing, but if you try it's much more likely that you'll get yourself into more trouble, so I strongly advise against it.People who tease are looking for your reaction - they want to see you hurt - so the best you can do is smile and try to pretend you're not hurt. That will make it less reinforcing for her. Another way it could be less reinforcing would be if you punched her hard, but even though she deserves it, it would again be likely to cause you more trouble.
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Now, this is not the most mature route to take in handling this problem, nor does it come with my seal of approval but...I got caught when I was 12 or 13 by my older step-sister and her friend. The teasing was non-stop. Finally, since there was no denying it and they wouldn't shut up, every time they said anything I asked if they wanted to help or watch or whatever. That shut my step-sister up, real quick and her friend followed suit shortly thereafter. There may also have been some threat of cum stains on her pillow or something... whatever, I'll deny it now.At the time it never interred into my head, but fortunately my step-sister didn't want to watch or help. Had she called my bluff and said yes, I would have had a whole other set of more serious problems. Had her friend said yes, that would have been another story, but I digress.As I said, this not a recommended course of action it's just an anecdote to ponder, a resolution by happenstance to a kindred problem.
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Whenever she teases you, just smile and hint that she must have been very impressed since it seems to be all she can talk about since then. If she denies it that means you've found something she will react defensively to. The only reason she attacks you with teasing is that you react defensively. I might say something like, "If there was anything about you that felt that good, you'd be doing it too!" In other words, don't react defensively. Teasing only works if you are ashamed of something.Masturbation is something nearly everyone does, and those who don't are just too dumb to figure out how to do it right or they'd be doing it too. Don't let her get to you on that account.