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i am 15 and there is this guy in mii school who i really like. the only prob is he dates sluts and whores and i m not a whore. What do i do? Is there anything I can do to get him to like me or at least so he says yes when i ask him out? What do i do?

Is this the same guy that wants to finger you?

yaa

Don't you already have a boyfriend? Another posts says you do.

im sorry but your confusing. you need to get respect for yourself.

w.e

im just trying to get you to have respect for yourself. your just gonna let some random guy finger you?? come off it. you really think any good is gonna come out of that?

no... but i am 15 and i havent done gotten past 2nd base... i wanna get to 3rd

Why the rush? There is no special prize for getting there early.

well how old r u?

Older than you, and a much more eloquent typist. You know what. The girls I liked most where the ones who HADN'T made it that far before. I think it's largely because of the general personality differences, but what "base" you've made it to really means nothing. It says a lot to me about the character of the person what their intentions are, not that I go around asking these kinds of questions or anything. It's just kind of a vibe that a person gives off based upon their motives and personality.

I would never want to go out with someone who wants to be with me just so I will finger her. There's no deep satisfaction in that for me, I'd rather be with someone who I share something with. Of course, the decision is entirely up to you, but I don't know why you'd want to do that just for the sake of having been there.

TRUST ME WHEN I SAY THIS! You think it's great to experience all of this. You think you are behind because your 15 and you havn't reached third base. I'll let ya in on a secret. If you go through with this then in a few years after your tired of the pricks that just wanna put a dick or a finger in you, you will want a decent guy. And no decent guy will want you if you've just been spreading your legs for fun the last couple of years.A good decent guy won't give two shits if your experienced or not. And when I say decent guys I don't mean the type of guys that only join chess club and play World of Warcraft all the time. I mean decent as in the sort of guy that YOU will want to have a long term relationship with some day.So yea... give in to peer pressure. Or as you would say... "w.e"

ok i gotta cha.... really? guys like wen gurls rent experienced ad havent been around?i neva though that

"A good decent guy won't give two shits if your experienced or not. And when I say decent guys I don't mean the type of guys that only join chess club and play World of Warcraft all the time. I mean decent as in the sort of guy that YOU will want to have a long term relationship with some day.

So yea... give in to peer pressure. Or as you would say... "w.e"

i second that. i tried to help her, but she didnt respond the way i was hoping. o and btw..my brother is addicted to WoW LOL

kk thnx 4 da advice... sry bout earlier... just bein 15

thats more like it. usually at 15 girls usually have their heads on a littler straighter then guys. trust me you might feel ya have to do shit to be liked or loved.wait it out a few years and the quality of the guys interested in you will sky rocket and it isn't because your inexperienced. It's because you respected yourself as a woman and your not going to put up with losers.It's like probably how women see men too, would you like a guy that gives in to what society expects of him and bends over? Or would be more attracted to a guy with principles and stands up for himself.Good luck

tnkx... did u do the same thing wen u were 15?

When I was a teen I didn't spend time with girls who didn't respect themselves or were a little too willing to do things. I didn't like easy girls. I'm not saying that is what you are or anything.I just liked girls that wanted to take their time and have fun enjoying their time with me (usually in a non-sexual way).

ewww... that sounds boring... but hey i guess i can try dat 4 awhile

well THAT is how a real relationship works girl! :grin: :wink: