oh. by the way... I'm feeling a bit better
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Happy anniversary
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yay! Abit better is a start to feeling alot better.
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Ah, sorry for getting a bit off topic. Great to hear you're feeling a bit better. Every little bit proves everything CAN get better and so long as you keep that same attitude you always post with saying how life goes on and things are good and moving, you can keep the good vibes coming and forget all that negative stuff that too many people tend to dwell on.
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no sweat straying off topic... of course I NEVER do that! wow, it almost sounds as if you're suggesting I take my own advice. that's just crazy talk!I was way down last week but I seem to be comming out. It's weird, I've been single for a year but it seems like it was yesterday. I have to see her every week when I drop my son off after a visit (like tonight). I still can't bring myself to talk to her. Not even "hi, how are ya". I don't look at her. The love I had for 12 years is totally replaced with seathing contept. If it wasn't for my son, I'd have absoluetly no contact with her at all. There'd be no reason for it.As far as the young lady that recently floated through my life, it sucks, it hurts, but it serves to remind me of what I already knew.. keep them at arm's length. I have managed to do it so far but I forgot for a minute. No btw, she isn't the first, far from it.Well, live an learn, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, life goes on, Obladi Oblada and all the rest of the cliches we use to get us by.
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keep them at arm's length.Awww That's just sad. Not all women are the same...I don't no, but thats pretty sad
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Well, I'm glad you're feeling better.
What would you do if a terrorist stepped on your lawn and started waving a gun?
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I'd invite him in, hold the door open for him, ask how he's doing, then he'd be like "Why am I doing this again?"
But in truth that's less common here where guns are much harder to come by and less of a part of our culture than they are in the US. If someone busted in to a house to grab a hostage I doubt I'd make it to a gun in time anyways, and if I did that would probably multiply my chance of getting killed tenfold since I'd no longer be a hostage but an armed threat that would be the target of his gun.
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I'd roll my eyes and say "Here we go again" then get out my trusty terrorist beating shovel.
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well, thanks but I've learned to be extra careful. I know I'll probably meet someone special again but I'll proceed with lots of caution.
In reply to:
What would you do if a terrorist stepped on your lawn and started waving a gun?
I have firearms in the house but they are carefully stored... so, I can either run for the keys or I can just go kick his pansy ass
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You should be the governator of California.
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Yea, but sometimes people can procide with too much caution... myself included
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yeah yeah... I'll kick Arnie's ass too if he askes for it
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Wow, thank you all for opening up your homes and beds to me. :grin: I think Katie should have a house warming party when her new house is all settled. Can you imagine the bunch of us under one roof?
By the way, this has got to be the most off topic thread ever. From anniversaries, to cheap sex, to passports, to traveling, to guns and terrorists....wow. LOL. I love you guys!
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Its an "Unsupervised" thread...they all get that way! Isn't it nice?
I would be scared of all of us under one roof! It just might come crashing in from all the laughter!
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In reply to: Yea, but sometimes people can procide with too much caution... myself included well, I have been sitting on the fence for a while now. My instincts tell me to keep the wall up and in place but I keep thinking that it's maybe been long enough and I should accept a relationship if it comes along.I'm probably still carrying a bit too much baggage though.
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MrU, there will ALWAYS be baggage. Someone will fall in your lap someday again...at least that is what I keep telling myself.No matter how far out you get there will be one form of baggage or other. For now it is the stuff from the ex, in a few years, it will be all the ones since then. After that women might be wondering what is really wrong with you that your not taken. Your wonderful, let some love in. Sometimes it hurts, and sometimes its awesome...lets focus on awesome K
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thanks honwhat really bugs me still is the times I've been stung since the 'tard left. You know the names, we've talked about them.I dunno if it's just a rebound thing.. salt in the wounds
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I TOTALLY understand, you have walked me through some of my own salt.That's what friends (and these boards) are for.
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I don't know, I like my walls. They are a comfort to me. I don't get hurt that way. It was alot easier and happier being single. You seem to be happier now that your single. I mean aside from these last couple of women.Hopefully soon I will be single....and with a passport.
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>Wow, thank you all for opening up your homes and beds to me. I think Katie should have a house warming party when her new house is all settled. Can you imagine the bunch of us under one roof?
Sounds like a fun time to me!!! :grin: