Well, I thought swearing in the title was a little too far...ANYHOW:There is a very nice lass, whom I will call Monica. Anyhow, Monica has a BF, and they've been going out for a couple of weeks. She had a bit too much to drink on thursday, basically because her BF wasn't confident to stop her. Monica used to be friends with my ex, and I'm friends with her BF. Basically, we are all walking with a group of people, her BF is linked with her on one side, and me being me was holding her arm on the other side because she kept running away. So basically she tells her BF to go away, which he does because he's scared to go against her. We get talking about my ex, and monica leads me to a hiding place where she starts telling me about her life, and I'm talking about how I feel. She keeps saying 'I kept telling [my ex] that she had one of the best looking BFs.' Which I took as a complement. Then, we're heading over to her BFs house about an hour later because everyone else was there and they were wondering where we were. We could hear them all round the corner, and a tipsy Monica was hugging me (nice, i thought) then she kissed me a few times (just pecks, just comfort I thought), then she tried to snog me! I started to, then being the god person I am, withdrew from her and said that it was wrong and just the drink. So we cuddled a bit and headed home. Next day we met up, no comments made. Then today, 2 days later, she kept going on secret walks with me about my ex. She then texts me asking if I'm ok, and I ask her to meet me. We meet away from everyone, and I ask her about the night she kissed me. She tells me she wanted to, and it wasnt because she was drunk, and that she doesn't regret it. She's completely sober now by the way Then she comes out with the comment 'I'd probably do it again if I had half a chance' to which I said 'would you like that half a chance now?' So to sum it up, she's still in a relationship with my friend, but after 4 sober snogs tonight, I still don't feel the least bit guilty Rock on! I had a GF, then I had admirers, and now I have someone in a relationship snogging me too Kick ass!
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I'm on a funking roll ....
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wow, you really seem to be a pimp... NOT
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That's really cool man. Hey the next time I get a girlfriend why don't you just take her off my hands and make out with her behind my back. Oh wait, it'd be easier to get my mom, message me and I'll give you my moms number.
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Dude your so cool! HOW DO YOU DO IT!But seriously we don't care.
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So much for the bros before hoes rule on that one. Do you like your 'friend'?
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Sorry, I've been a bit depressive lately and this really cheered me up. And my friend would do the same to me (infact he took her off another of my friends) so I'm not really bothered. And why is everybody sarcastic on these forums?And 'bla bla bla....NOT!' is soooooooooo 90s
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(infact he took her off another of my friends)coughslutcoughOk, so what happens when one of your mates takes her off you?
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I know exactly what you mean about confidence and women at times. I have had HUGE F*CKIN rolls like you too but I've always respected my friends (though I doubt one or two of em would do the same). It just builds integrity and that travels too. Hope your friend is an open minded bloke.
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CNC - She's not really a slut as in 'i want more' she just has trouble keeping relationships My friend knows what she is like, and she acts on impulse, so if he ever found out, I think he would probably understand. By the way, who said I wanted a relationship with her? I know how quickly she can change her mind, I'm just having a bit of fun
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If she really wants you, and not just another fuck buddy feeding her ego, she should break up with her current boyfriend and go out with you... But do you want a girl that can't stay faithful? Hopefully, karma won't bite you in the ass.
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He didn't say he wants her for anything more than a slap-and-tickle buddy. I wonder how his friend would really feel about that, though.
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No, she wants him. I think she probably likes to start lots of drama with guys... I think it sounds like she is just fucking around with them.
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Yup, sounds like a power thing for her.
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ever think about the other guy? thats mean... >.<
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Ok, firstly, I did think about the other guy. She has a lot of issues really, and she tells me about them, then she snogs me because it makes her feel better. Either way I'm not bothered because it makes me feel better
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Wow, you're a terrible person. Why would you make out with your friends girlfriend? Jackass.
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And if you were in his place and he was messing with your girlfriend, it would be totally cool?
You should ask him how he feels about it, and if it's OK with him, then go right ahead sharing her. Weirder things than that have been done.
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Like I've already said, she's not one to be most trusted and he knows this. He took her off someone else. And technically, if you're gonna blame it on one person:
My friends girlfriend made out with me.
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You're rationalizing. Re-read my post.o Would you be OK about it if you were in his place?o If you told him about it, would he be totally cool with it?If you can answer yes to those questions, then it's cool.
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Sorry, I wasn't repling to you Steve. Ok, I don't think the whole sharing thing is a good idea because:
1. That is a very wierd thing to ask for.
2. One would get more of the share.
3. I think she's on the verge of splitting up with him.And if I was in his place, I would probably be expecting it.