I have a problem with not being able to last long like gettn head or having sex and ive done it before but i think im lastn less and less longer how can i help to last longer??? :confused:
I need help
Thats is not hot! Maybe you should think of something very unattractive during sex, like right b4 u cum, then get hot again, and repeat as long as u want. I've never had this problem but thats how I stay hard and pack in those hours of sex. Hope this is someone helpful. Can someone with more experience in this area help this guy out?
The first question I have to ask is - how long ARE you lasting? Many guys assume that ALL guys can go at it for hours - but that's not true at all. In fact - it only take the average guy a few minutes to cum IF he's constantly pumping away. That's why it's best to pump for 20 seconds or so then stop and do something else - like kiss. You can leave your penis inside of the other person [all wrapped up in a condom - of course] while kissing or whatever - but stop the actual pumping motion. Then - start again. Keep doing that - especially when you feel that you're getting close. Try to keep in mind that sex is NOT about going at it like dogs. There's a lot more to it than that. A true sexual experience starts even before the clothes come off. Sex - for the most part - is an emotional experience with some physical thrown in for fun. That's why anonymous sex is almost always an empty experience - because it's relying on the physical to make up for the lack of emotional.
For a guy to last longer - it's alway best to work on that alone - at first. The start and stop method during masturbation - is a good way to learn how to control your orgasm. Get in tune to your own body. Understand how your penis works. When you masturbate - take your time. When you feel your getting close to having an orgasm - STOP - wait until that feeling goes away [but not long enough for the erection to go away] and start again. Keep doing that about 4 or 5 times. Before you know it - YOU will be in control of YOUR orgasm.
I hope that makes sense!!
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yea that helps alot i mean the first time i got head i think i lasted so long because she wasnt reeally good at it but this last time i dont think i really lasted maybe a minute it felt sooo good and i tried to think of sumthin else but it didnt work and after words she was like all ready??? :blush: :frowning: i felt sooo embarassed