I don't know maybe I'm over exagurrating but you know I just don't feel like I get respect/credited, at least not while I'm around.I feed 19 dogs(use to be 25) 18 sheep 6 cats 8 cows etc. but when people talks to him, he says he has too keep up with feeding on those animals.I helped him rebuild 90% of the fenses around my dads farm. but when he is talking to people he speaks of how he did all this work, and when talking to me he talks about how amazed people are at all the work he put in to it for such a short amount of time.Gee thanks dad, I don't really get paid to speak of (maybe a burger every now and then) the least you could do is give me credit.As I mentioned before my girlfriend lives very far away like over 200 miles, don't ask why I choose a girl over 200 miles away.Anyway he wanted me to do something and I made some I'm to lazy to comment, and he keeps going on, after I took you to see your girlfriend blah blah, I mean yeah he took me and I'm glad, but I payed for the whole trip, the gass the sodas the hamburgers etc.I think he might of bought a small cup of coffee at one point. I mean yeah I'm glad he drove me up there but I paid for everything so its not like he can really say he was spending his money on me.He brings up this whole, yeah well I really didn't want to go but I sitll did, his farm is like 15 miles away he goes every damn day and 300 days out of the year I have to go the other 65 depends if im too sick or if he is nice enough to let me not go.but you know I ask for him to spend a 4 hour drive to see my gf and I pay for the whole trip, yet he complains?I mean he's a good person but he seems to be selfish, I dunno what do you guys think? do you think I'm over reacting or he's being kinda selfish and disrespectful.
Sometimes I feel as I don't get any Respect
People do tend to take other people for granted, and don't appreciate them until they have gone. I think that's true of most or all of us.
Parents always take credit for what you did, it doesn't matter what it is, so you are not alone in the world! ANd most of all they make out that they have done so much for you if you ask for something once. But that is life. The thing is parents gave us our existance.... a fact which we can't ignore because they always bring it up when they want something and you say no. But it is true they did make sacrifices so that we can be and in return we have to give something back. Don't take what he says to others to heart since it is sometimes just easier to tell people that he did it.... try and do things not to seek achknowledgment from your dad but just so you know you have done it. But don't worry it won't last forever! Once you become more independent from your dad he won't be able to bring the recent things he's done for you... just that you exist because of him..lol
i see the same shit happening to my little brother and it annoys the shit out of me, this isnt just my parents that make him do stuff but my 3 sisters on top of that, i tell him to stop being such a tool but he is such a puss now that he just says "i dont want to get in arguments and get in trouble"If they would pull that on me i just wouldnt do it and tell them why
Hes trippin out on lsd... LSD! TRIPPIN OUT LIKE A WILD DOG IN THE WOODS!!