i dont kno why im writing this i think i just need to vent n i hav no1 to vent to at the momentIM JUST DONE!!!!! im ready to leave!these kids r driving me nuts i love them with all my heart i really do n shes so great but the past few nights have just been shocking im ready to just walk out iv burst into tears so many times. i just hate it im so close i didnt leav coz i missed home n im even missing goin to my friends wedding to stay the extra month and hav christmas with my kids n i made the right decision ther i know but after last nite i wanted to leav n i cried n figured it would all b ok it was just a bad day but it happend again. i just wana cry n i wana get out n i need a hug n im sick n tired n i finish at midnight n then start at 8 i dont kno wat to do i dont want to do this anymor but im so confused n i cant leav now im so close but its been so bad ther just not listening its complete chaos.n then later its all better and forgotten - i cant do it anymore if it keeps up like this:( i wana cry n i need a hug n i miss home
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Im ready to leave
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err...that didn't make too much sense to me. Maybe you should come back when you stop sobbing and can write coherent sentences lol. You should explain your problem better (it was a problem right?). Anwyay, all I caught from those mangled lines of text was that you need a hug.
so....
*hug* ?
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lol thanks i do need a hug several in fact i miss my hugs see the thing is im a nanny,im from australia but im living in the states the kids have been SHITTING me the last couple days-not just normal little kid stuf tho like major pain in the ass stuff like sitting in washing baskets n surfing down the basement stairs-just not listening at all wen im trying to get them to calm downn i was not sobbing :P
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Well, since you are a nanny and have the option of leaving, sit the kids down like at a meal or with a movie or something and explain to to them (if they like you). Explain it to their mom/dad. How old are the kids?
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Awwww hugsChildren can be little shits sometimes. Hang in there
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Ah, bad kids... I know about that. There's not much you can do to fix it except hide chocolate in the lining of your clothes, and then when you are SURE they aren't looking, sneak a bite... But be careful, because they KNOW the sound of a wrapper being opened.hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug
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Awww hon cuddle can't you have a word with their parents? at the end of the day YES you are responsable for them but so are their parents. How many kids do you look after hon?
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hehehe yes they do kno the sound or wrappers being opened.also the smell of popcorn :frowning:
i have 4 kids n ther not bad kids ther actually really very good but the past few days hav been shocking:( even this morning was bad,but that had nothing to do with the kids it was just her - c the problem is i have a habit of starting laundry for the kids n then leaving it in the dryer n forgetting to fold it n she freaks shes like omg its all gona wrinkle u hav to do it again.so i do it again.anyhoo..ther was a load in the machine n some id folded the other nite but not put away n more dirty stuf so i knew i had to do al that b4 the cleaner got here,n then she tells me that thers a basket in her room of clothes i didnt finish last time.im thinkn wtf i wasnt here iv been away remember n i did everything b4 i left.so i did it all n started putting away this HUGE basket of clothes n im lookn at them goin hang on i have NEVER seen these clothes b4\. u kno wat she did,she took all of the boys winter clothes out of storage threw them in a basket n told me it was laundry i hadnt finished. i hate wen she does stuf like that. n then she says o because thers not many clothes in their drawsers cuz u havnt done the laundry in a while can u reorganise them wen u put that stuf away. these kds own more clothes than me they do not all fit. i know cuz i tried to make them fit.
it just pisses me off.iv done so well so far.i stuck it out the 1st few months wen the girl despised me n wouldnt talk to me,im stil here even tho i miss my friends n im caught between the older boy and his mother. iv finally figured it all out,that i am actually gona go home at the end of my 12 months,iv figured out wat im doin wen i get bak n im happy with how its all working out,i even have friends here now. it just cant ever b easy can it
thanks for the support n hugs guys its kinda hard to hav a bad day here wen i cant just leav n i dont hav my gud friends from home to call n hug :frowning: