Im still very confused about my sexuality. I love sucking cock, but I hate anul and I think its disguisting. I love girls. I love pussy, but I love sucking cock.This is my only homosexual experience, and its a bit sick, but I was a little kid at the time.I was about 9 years old at the time. My cousin was 13. Me and him were like best buddies, and we were in his room. He basically just unzipped his pants and let me play with it. He was roughly around 7 inches. I couldnt believe it. And now hes 17, hes about 9 or more inches soft. He got the big dick gene..So I basically sucked him off. I think that was the turning point whether or not I was gay. I always thought some boys were cute, and I remember the first time I kissed a boy was in Kindergarten. Im still very confused about my sexuality. Im 16 now, and I havent sucked a cock to this day. Theres this boy who is my cousins neighbor. Hes bi-sexual, and has asked me if I wanted to have sex/oral with him. I wish I sucked his dick, because its a HUGE turn on for me. But I still think Anul sex is disguisting (No offense to the homosexuals on this board), Im still confused. I would consider myself bi-sexual I guess, but all I've done with a guy is sucked a dick.
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Im Confused- Homosexual Experiences
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Why worry about a label?? Seriously just be yourself and don't worrying about labeling yourself, sexuality is very fluid. I know a few guys who label themselves bi-sexual who don’t like anal sex with guys but love oral sex with guys. Again sexuality is very fluid.As long as you are true to yourself, that’s all that matters.
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Some hetrosexual men out there love intercourse with a woman but have no time for giving her oral (and I, consequently, have no time for them, ha ha) But the point I'm making is that the particulars of the kinds of sex acts you enjoy really arent at issue in so far as determining your sexuality.
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There's even some straight gays who may have sucked cock once or twice. So don't try to get in a labeled group of people, be yourself instead. Only you can make yourself gay, straight, bi, or lesbian.
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I'm a little older, and i'm even more confused. For some time i'm having this urges to have sex with another man. I have masturbated... anal stimulation and even tried dildos, and i liked it...The problem is i never had the guts to go forward with my desire. And to make matters worth, most times, after masturbating it seems my urges disappears...I have a girlfriend for over a year, and i talked to her and even though she said she wouldn't mind (just wanted to know) she didn't seemed that honest. I don't want to cheat on her (my own heart wouldn't stand it) and she wouldn't even like a 3-some.To define our own (or any one elses) sexuality is not easy...Sometimes i too joke around with my friends talking about some celebraties being gay or not (you know the tabloid's gossip),... but the truth is that it shouldn't matter... Maybe that's whats keeping me from being even more happy sexually... And no label or comment shouldn't keep you from that too...
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Well, since the thread's been bumped anyway, I'll add my two cents.You shouldn't worry about it too much. If you like it, then what the hell, you like the cock Good for you. (or something)Now, I'm about as gay as it comes, and I find this whole anal thing really really icky. So I know what you mean. You can be bi or even gay without liking anal sex at all.And besides, it doesn't matter, just as some of the others here said: it's just a label.
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If you can give your two cents worth, then I can too.I have been reading what everyone has written here. I’ve accepted my sexuality a long time ago. But being gay isn’t just about having sex with someone else of the same sex. Being gay is a lot more.
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"you like the cock Good for you."?? Your words can be easily misunderstood. I hope you 're talking metaphorically here. Because being gay doesn't mean you like cocks, because a cock is a thing. It's a person you have to be attracted to in order to be gay.
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With that "Good for you" line up there I meant there's no problem with being gay and/or liking penises. If anything, being gay usually implies you like cocks, and liking cocks (and liking to suck on them, see below) also usually implies you're at least bi. Maybe I didn't manage to emphasise enough the part that says it's okay to be that way and that the poster should not worry about it. Let's blame English not being my first language.The original poster himself said: "I love sucking cock", which is the exact reason I decided to refer to it in my reply.I'm very well aware what being gay is about, thank you. (This goes for both Roc and you)
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Thanks for clearing things out.
