I can always get boners when I am just making around and stuff but then when I know its gonna lead to sex, I have a hard time getting it up. I hate it. I have had sex with a few different people but still before sex it is hard for me to get it up. Anything I can do beforehand to help me?
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Cant get it up in time of need
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This is a common problem due to nerves. It can help to refrain from masturbating for some days before. Obviously, don't drink too much, or get yourself too tired.
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it's just a case of the jitters. After a few positive sexual experience, you'll stop thinking about the problem and it will go away.The tough thing is that it easily repeats as soon as you think about it. Just takes time.
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Yea, it is nerves. I have this problem with a new partner sometimes
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So glad i found this, my bf has this trouble, and it is a little annoying for me, as i am the 'first timer' in the relationship, but i figured just leave it be and see what happens later on. and i cannot ask/tell him about the fact it is prob nerves cause i am to shy to do that, and he is to shy to say so. so thanks for you post.
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Its the thought that counts will do in future