Is this bad when i watch porn

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You are absolutely right Ash; this person started out by asking me was I male or female. Now I've decided its best not to enter into a pm discussion with anyone who starts out wanting to know that. But it's entirely possible someone may want to know my gender for genuine reasons related to assessing my suitability in helping with a problem that they have and don’t feel comfortable posting about. It's genuine people like that who will pay in the long run for the actions of idiot pervs like meandyou1147.

this isn't to you starfishcan i REPEAT myself, and ask people to PM a mod if they are getting PMs they don't like, WE can't know whats going on behind the scenes if we are not told, and for obvious reasons they don't PM us............if both you star and ashley got pms that you found disturbing, why is it the first i am reading of it is in ths thread?????? I would suggest sending a complaint to ALL MODS that way whoever is online can deal with it, before everyone starts moaning about it.........

if both you star and ashley...and CuteNCrazyAsley was concerned that there was no Mod on line (or if there was, they were invisible). But if she'd sent a message, it could have been dealt with when a mod did come on line. There's at least one around most of the time.Ashley commented that one of the reasons she wanted to become a mod is so she could deal with perverts. This leads me to believe that the PM problem is worse than the mods may realize.Edit: It would be good if there were a way to send a message to all moderators when warranted, in cases where it's warranted. Does the "Notify Moderator" icon at the bottom of a message do that?

**I agree steve, it probably IS worse, but we don't know unless members tell us..........i for one have no qualms about banning members who send PMs etc and bother other members of the forum but i have to know about em first LOL

and as for becoming a mod to deal with perverts, well funnily enough they don't pm mods........so it wouldn't make any difference who the mods were, we still need to be informed by members! **

Yes, good points.

the notify mods button sends a notification in email to all mods yes, tho i often check the forum before email LOL so for me a pm would work better.............i banned the user anyway for everyones information.

I didn’t say anything Angel, because I didn’t realise there was a problem till I saw that this person had asked the same question of Ash & Cutes. To try to give the mods an idea of how this sort of thing can happen without the recipients knowledge I'll copy and paste this conversation, which I'm lucky to have saved.I'm a frank talker and have no problem being honest with young people about what is going on with them, after all, I wish to God someone had been honest with me in my teens, had I had the nerve to ask! I honestly hadnt a clue there was anything untoward going on, as I'd imagine you'll be able to see here for yourselves:M&Y - hey ar eoyu male or felmale bc i have some questionsSF - Go for it. You might find gender really isnt that important anyway!M&Y - ok well is 6 adn 3/4 inches long and 2 and a half fingers wide small for size and when i masterbate is 2-4 mins to shortSF - The answer to your first question would be, that is a little above average, and if you are still in your teens (particularly early teens) it is likely to grow further. We dont stop developing physically till we are about twentyone. As for your second question, if you are having a good orgasm in that time during masturbation there isnt a thing wrong with it, I often come that quickly, or quicker, myself. The only problem would be if you got into the habit of ALWAYS coming in that time, which wouldnt be good for sexual relationships further down the line. Some men find if they delay their orgasm, (by stopping a taking a break when they feel they're getting close) it results in a stronger orgasm. That might be worth a try. I'm female by the way. Are you surprised? Ha ha! Just for nosiness sake, why did you decide to pm me in particular about this?M&Y - alright thanks alot and i was just getting some ones oppion and i am glad you answeered back to me and do oyu masterbateSF - I think if you read my last message again you'll find that I do! How old are you?M&Y - im 15 how old are oyuSF - I'm 30, and Irish. Where are you from?At this point I came across Ashley and CuteNcrazys posts that made it clear he wasn’t a genuine person in need of guidance or advice; and before he had the chance to respond to me I promptly sent him the following post:SF - I have just discovered that you have been asking women left right and centre on here whether they masturbate. Don’t fucking attempt to get off at my expense again.Now, call me nieve, and fair enough, I do feel a bit foolish now; maybe alarm bells should have gone off sooner?? But they honestly didnt, until I came across Ashley and CuteNcrazy's posts.In any case, I'm glad to know he's banned now.

This reminds me of Pony (and his alter ego). Remember him? (shudder)

So what was Pony about (or should I ask?!)

gregbetheman was a real winner, and may have been another alter ego of Pony (a.k.a. barnesy1998, a.k.a. Galen123, a.k.a. lancer), but Pony (whose name came from the way he was hung, he said). Pony liked to ask female members if he could send them a picture of his....thing. Pony / barnesy weirdness Pony's last surviving post, from March 2005. (By the way, we also have a member with two members, above that post.)Angel comments on Pony

You're too quick to make identifications, Steve. Pony and Lancer and Galen123 were probably the same, but barnesy1998's ISP is located in a completely different country. Your comment on a "member with two members" is, I think, another conclusion wrongly jumped to. (If you have more information then PM me.) People who similar things or say similar things are not necessarily the same people.

I'm trying to remember why I thought they were the same...it's been a while. barnesy1998 started posting after Pony stopped, although Pony spent a couple more months PMing female members with unwelcome sexual questions, and offers to send pictures of his penis. He was on a lot, checking for people to show up. It looks like they were not the same person, but the both were extreme perverts who lingered here far too long.I think you misunderstood what I meant about a member with two members. It was about Damien, a member of the Web site, who posted in the "How big is your dick?" thread a reply to a guy who posted, "i was just wondering how many guys r actually 8 inches or above?" Damien's response was, "both of mine are", thus indicating that Damien, the member, had two members. It was a theme that came up in another thread with another poster. Scroll up one post from the link and see for yourself.I feel like I just laid a small joke on an anvil, and hit it really hard with a sledgehammer.

omg....he sent me that EXACT SAME MSGS!!! HOLY SHIT.....-cries-im sorry everyone. i feel realy stupid now. yeah the pming for me is pretty bad...but i try and ignore it so it can go away...but it hasnt... im really sorry...

and gregthebethman harassed me too....

Again I like to reiterate to always always end us harassing and inappropriate posts to ALL of us mods so it can be handled. But just ignoring them does not solve the problem. Remember is they are sending you inappropriate PM's they are probably sending them to others.(This wasn’t directed just to you Ashley, but everyone… you were just the last to post )

thankies...i just dont wanna bug anyone by telling them all this stuff

Trust me you can never bother me I am here to help and make people are not being harassed.