Sexual problems- i need help

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i have no problems getting erections. but once i put the condom on and try to have sex with someone, it seems to go away before i ejaculate. i am really worried seeing's its happened twice in a row now and i don't know what to explain to my new girlfriend. any help is greatly appreciated

It's a common problem, due to nerves. Having sex in the morning, when you are horniest helps, as does refraining from masturbation for a few days before. Once you get used to the situation the nerves go away.

thanks!

Condoms in general really kill it for me. I lose so much sensation that the erection goes away. When I most recently had to wear a condom, I tried lambskin, which I really liked. The only problem is they don't do much to protect against disease. There are other materials besides latex that you may consider experimenting with if you think the condom itself may be contributing to the loss of erection.

lambskin doesn't protect against much of anything...yeah,it's just the lamb part that gets me disturbed.try polyurethane: it works just as effectively as latex,is great if you're allegic to latex, it's thinner and stronger,but more expensive i think.

ya you know what you guys are probably right. it might just be the condom. I do tend to lose the erection a lot after i put it on. so much sensation is lost. I'll try your ideas. thanks.

im not very experienced, and this same thing happens to me. I dont have an erection problem, it just dies like 5-10 seconds after it goes in, my gf and I have tried with and without a condom on (to test if the condom was the problem) like a total of 3-4 times. Just wondering if its nerves, because I feel completely at ease with her, or something else. Any over the counter stuff that could help?

I think it must be nerves, now strengthened by conditioning and expectation. Once you get things working properly it will go away. Try in the morning, when you're horniest.

I've had the same issue before, I've found two solutions that seem to work ok.My GF and I will have sex initally without a condom, until I'm about half-way done, I put the condom on and finish the deed. However, this obviously does nothing to prevent against STD's, and there is a remote possibility that she may become pregnant; a possibility that becomes all that much more so, if your girl isn't on some sort of BC method.