- I have probably slept with 5 or so total since I was last tested that I could possibly have gotten something from, who knows. These 5 women are very very sexually active, i would not be surprised if they had HIV.... for sake and purposes of determing risk, lets assume all 5 did. I used a condom each time I had sex with them but am extremely paranoid anyway... for example I worry that by me using my fingers to remove the condom that the virus is now on my finger tips, and since I bite my nails and skin near the nails (it sometimes bleeds when i do this) that now the virus could very easily have gotten in there... even though I never touch there. I just feel like im risking my life everytime I have sex even when using a condom.... i sometimes worry that maybe the condom the girl has grabbed is pigskin and doesnt even protect against STDs...
2) second situation was a girl that was on my lap and i didnt have a condom on and had my penis out because she was giving me oral, then she tried to slowly slide on top of me... as soon as i felt her pussy on the tip of my dick and even beginning to slide in i immediately grabbed her and said "no cant do that".... chances of getting HIV?
3) I always use condoms but what about getting herpes on the inner thigh or on a place the condom isnt protecting? Ive never had a bump on my dick before or on the base of my penis or the area above that but I have had bumps that are on my inner thighs before.... they come and go randomly... sometimes i dont get them for a while then ill get them alot... are these herpes bumps? They dont hurt, they just somewhat itch and feel like a pimple, they dont look like anything more than pimples... is that what herpes can look like too? I thought herpes was a nasty open sore or something in which case ive never had that before.
And I know I should just get tested and find out for sure, which I will, im just deathly scared of being tested as well. Kinda feels like if i go in and find out I have HIV i just drop dead and life is over.... people with HIV nowadays though can live as long as other people though can't they? Magic johnson seems to be fine...
What are chances I could have STD? SCARED!
Welcome to A2A, CuriousOne.
It is indeed possible to get herpes or genital warts even with a condom on, because these can enter through skin that isn't covered. Condoms reduce the chance of getting an STD but don't entirely eliminate it.
It seems that you have done all you can to reduce your chances of getting an STD, except for having less sex - which I assume isn't an acceptable solution for you.
Getting tested is the best option. HSV-2 can appear pretty well anywhere on the body. inner thight, upper back, lower leg, testicles, base of the penis, or the head of the penis. For the most part herpes is spread by physical contact with the open sores present with a herpes outbreak.
It's spreadable by blood, semen, vaginal secretion etc once the virus reaches your spinal cord and gets sent throughout your system. It's harder to tell when a female has genital herpes because they tend to get the sores on the inside of the vagina, as far as six inches in their. (And they say their is nothing good about having a small member )
As far as symptoms go, you can have no symptoms at all and have HSV-2. Some people get the symptoms so bad they are in excruciating pain and others have absolutley no symptons at all.
Best to get tested though, if you do have anything the Dr. can set ya up with somthing. Worst case scenerio you have HIV and you need to get to the dr so he can get ya some AZT or if its herpes so he can get you on some suppresive therapy to reduce your chances of spreading, though I STRONGLY reccomend going as soon as possible so in the case you do have somthing it doesnt evolve into somthing you cant do anything about.
Im not basing that off what you posted tho, I dont know about your personal life ... It's just always a good idea to get tested regularly
why dont you just not have sex with these people?
and get tested.
*~I don't mind living in a man's world..As long as I can be a woman in it!~* -Marilyn
Now act like a man, grab your balls and go get tested.
I used to whore around alot, I still got tested monthly when I was, and for several months after i stopped since some shit takes up to six months to show up.
What if you are infected, and are spreading shit around simply because your to chickenshit to find out and get it taken care of ?
What if you bang some broad, and get something, and when confronted she tells you "well i thought maybe, but I was scared to find out
There are responsabilities and consequences for your actions, if you can do the deed, you need to be able mentally to live up to the actions you took.
and as a side note, Magic has the money to pay for drugs that most people can not afford, money makes all the difference in your health care.
Tommy Morrison is doing well enough hes contemplating a return to the ring, the drugs work well, and give a more normal life, IF you can afford them.
Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be.