My girlfriend and I have recently started screwing around. We are each others firsts for everything, so we are just figuring everything out together.When it comes to me doing stuff to her down there, its kinda weird. When i just rub her, above pants or above her panties, I can really get her going (to the point where shes grabbing my back/shirt/pants, panting heavily, moaning, etc). But when I go right on her vagina, or actually put my finger in, i have to be very careful. Shes very tight becuase shes never done anything before (even to herself). I have only actually put it in and fingered her like 5 times so far, and its not as tight as it was before.. so I'd imagine that its just something that gets better over time. But as of right now, i have to be very careful. I have to put it in very slowly otherwise it hurts her, and she told me that its on the verge of hurting sometimes, and that even when its in there, she doesn't really feel it very much.Anyone have some general advice or tips? I'm inexperienced when it comes to this, so i'l take anything you guys can give me. I'd prefer girls opinions and advice, obviouslyThanks!
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Fingering and vaginal sensitivity?
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Mant girls respond more to clitoral stimulation than vaginal.
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Could you please go into more detail? Like i understand what your saying.. i know what the clitoris is and actual pentration with my fingers, etc. But i'd appriciate more detailed responses as to what i can do, what other girls here like, etc.
Basicaly anything that has to do with this subject will most likely help me
Thanks!
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Yeah, i guess it hadn't occured to me yet that when I was rubbing her intensely, what i was actually doing was stimulating her clit. Puts a new perspective on what i am doing/can be doing to please her, as opposed to just penetration
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When you decide/if you decide to attempt oral sex with your girlfriend if you feel you need some direction you may try this tip out. If you are female please stop reading now because it will ruin it if it is ever done to you.First it is important to know that women respond differently to different pressures textures and speeds. It is generaly a good idea to start slow and and delicately. (When in doubt ask her, I know in your situation that you are both inexperianced, so ask what she prefers based on what you are doing.)ok that being said try this. imagine the vagina and its many parts both sets of lybia the clit the vaginal opening ect as a writing surface. Your tounge is a paintbrush, what you want to paint is the alphabet in capital letters and then in lower case. or the numbers 1-999. For varyation try starting at a different letter than A or going backwards I find it works well if you make large motions that encompass the entire vagina say for your A you would start down in the lower left by the perenium the peak of your A would be the clit you cross right across the vaginal opening and then cross back and your finish would be the lower right by the perenium.If she likes it, don't tell her what you are doing women recognize patterns in what you do sexualy, the alphabet is complex enough that no one has ever realized what I was doing and because it is complex and you can form letters in different ways it provides variety to keep it from becoming boring.ok enough of me talking.feel free to critique.