I know this girl we started off as friends...cinema etc. then we both said we had feeling for eachother.So we decided to start goin out.So we went once.Watched a movie.walked her home.and she hugged me when i walked her back.then i arranged for us to go just for a walk round the area(we both like doing that) and she agreed.then she canceled due to "other plans".so i ignored that and arranged something for another time.to go to a party.so in the end i couldnt go and she went.got drunk and did "stuff" with another guy(guy1).so next day she told me she had a great time and then told me about the guy1.she said nothing happened.i trusted her.then turns out she did do "stuff" with him.and we broke up cause she said she only saw me as a friend.then turns out she didnt think that she had just panicked because we got "close"(many secrets revealed over msn)so we decided to try again and start goin out.she invited me to go out with sum of her freinds.i agreed.so that day i got ready and she said she got "lost".so i didnt see her that night either.and turns out she kissed another guy(guy2)that night.so we broke up once again and again she said it "jst"happened.so i let that go too.(you can see from how much i like her )so we got back together again.and she invited me to her house because he parents where gone.so again i got already...and then went on msn ...guy2 was in the same room as her on webcam with me...so i jst got fed up really and said jst stop messing me about.turns out he jst "appeared" at her house and then we had bit of arguement in short thatt it doesnt work between us because apparantly i dont do "stuff" with her i have only been with her once in the last month so i forgot about her for a couple of days and started liking her best friend.turns out her best freind doesnt like me that much really.and now she(first girl)reveals tht she actually loves me and that she only avoided/canceled all the outing cause she panicked that i would hate her afterwords ...so she said she will break up with guy2 and get back with me... i am very confused because it seems to me she is just messing me about. so anyone got any idea of what i should do...?
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Worth a Try?
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Well that is awful She doesn't seem worth the time if she is doing other "stuff" with other guys. So If I was you then I would just let her go.
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Sounds like a total bitch, just leave her alone, break all contact.
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Nail her and then just dump her. she did it to you, get back at the dumb bitch
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If you're not worried about STDs, then she'd be good for some fun... but she's not relationship material yet.
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ah...good choice.. im only 15 though lol and Websexinfo...they called STIs...jst thought id remind you
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STD vs. STI
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we actually got bk together and seems right this time.
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wtf? How long are you going to let her do this to you? You're making yourself look like an idiot by keep going back, basically saying it's okay for someone to walk all over you like that. She's probably laughing at you behind your back I would NO WAY be in a relationship with someone who did that more than once. grr!
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see wat i mean...she either really means she loves me...or she totaly meassing around...its so confusing
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> she either really means she loves me...
No she doesn't (you don't do that to someone you love), or she's totally messed up in the head. Either way, run!
> or she totaly meassing around...its so confusing
She sure seems to be.
It's hard to be objective when you're in the middle of it, but you're in a bad situation.