so i'm a guy, and i'm crazy about this girl. we r both 15 i believe she just thinks of me as a friend. she also likes this other guy. it's ok, i know that she doesn't like me, but i can't get her out of my head. i'd wander off during class and think about her. and i always wish that i'd pass her by in the hall way. what do i do? i can't get her to like me, and i just want to get rid of these feelings.
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What do i do?
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In your state of mind, could you possibly look for a different love interest?
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we have fun together, but when we're in a group of people, she seems to igore me and focus on the other guys
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That's because she's not interested in you as a prospect. That's put simply enough.
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i'm guessing that means she isn't "attracted" to me right?well the guy she currently likes is a huge player, and i can't compete with that shiz!
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It's not really a matter of competition. Attraction depends on a lot of things and what attracts one person may not attract another.Unrequited love is tough, and there's not much you can do but wait for time to make the feelings fade.
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I said it pretty simple. There's not much more to it. It sounds like you're pretty much on the friends ladder. Sucks, I know. You can verify whether or not your on the friends ladder or not by going directly to her about it... and once you've found out where you stand then you can know where to go from there.