This is going to be pretty long, so I thought I would warn you ahead of time. I used to be really good friends with this girl named Keziah. She used to have this boyfriend named Justin. Justin and I are good friends. We always would hang out with each other, but never do anything sexual together. Keziah started accusing me and still is accusing me of doing stuff with her now ex-boyfriend Justin. Nothing has happened. Anyways, Keziah and I are not friends anymore. The problem is I think Justin likes me. I want to come out and just ask him, but I think he will deny it. He gives me little hints that he does. He has this new thing for touching my hair and blowing on the back of my neck when he is standing behind me. He calls me everyday at least once if not more. He cancels plans with his best friend to hang out with me. I don’t know whether he likes me more than a friend or not, but that is certainly the impression he is starting to give me. I don’t know how to find out for sure if he likes me or not. I like him a lot, but at the same time I can’t, because he went out with someone that used to be a really good friend of mine. It would look so whorish if I decided to date him. Plus Keziah’s mom and my mom are really good friends. I am just looking for advice. Thanks so much if you read all of this!
Does he like me?
I am no expert but I would say he likes you. If he is giving you hints I would also say he wouldnt deny it. What would be the point of dropping hints anyway? I would I ask myself what I value more, my friend or justin. I dont see why it should be a problem with her. You should be able to have both. Maybe you could talk to Keziah. Say I dont want to hurt you maybe we could put this behind us. or something.
Confront him about it. If you go out with him and your ex-friend gets mad, then her anger really resides within herself caused by her insecurity.
talk to your friend first and ask her if it would be ok. it happened to me, i was with a guy and we broke up and then my best mate went out with him and it hurt so much, only because she didnt talk to me first. then when she knows the situation, talk to him, sounds like he's got it bad for you. just be honest with him and you cant go wrongBecky xx
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