Well i'm a 15 year old guy and me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 months now. We've done a little bit of messin around (fingering, eatout, hand job) just basic exploring. Well we've talked about it and she said she doesn't want to have sex for a long time and i just went along with her because i care about her so much and am down with whatever she wants. I don't really mind that she doesn't want to but i have so much sexual frustration and i just feel so damn horny all the time and she never really does anything to me and i don't wanna make her do anything but it's just so hard to control all these sexual feelings cause i don't want to ruin our relationship over them. Hell, her parents won't even let us be alone or go anywhere which makes it even worse but i wanna stick with her. I try to just masturbate more but it's not really workin, what should i do to try and calm all these feelings down?, i feel like i don't even want to have a sex drive so i don't have to worry about it cause I feel so frustrated.
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Sexually frustrated
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To be personal, does she give you blowjobs? I see you mentioned hand-jobs...but that sure as hell dosn't compare to a good bj. If you can start getting those, you'll be able to continue for a couple years probably on just that.
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no, i mean she probably will though i mean, i seem to be doin a pretty good job of takin care of her but i hardly ever get anything in return, i dunno what to say about that
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It should always be a two way street to me...handjobs are garbage compared to a BJ...just like fingering is to a good eat-out session. If you're willing to lick her till she comes, she should be willing to put your penis in her mouth.
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yea, that's the way i feel but i just never wanted to force her into doing it, i thought she eventually would if i kept up my part. what do you think i should do?
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Your best option would be to be honest, just suggest it tell her how much you'd like to try it. She probably wants to do it, but feels anxious. If she admits to let, let her know that she is in charge, let her take her time, and let her know when you're going to cum.
