A few questions...
Hi, im 16, no car or anything, so i was wondering where i could have sex? My parents wont approve of me doing it so i cant just tell them me and my girlfriend want to be alone.
They would never leave me home alone with her or anything. any ideas? she can drive, so i was thinking something like asking my parents to go to the mall, and her taking me to her house or a hotel or idk somewhere....
See I had the same situation, it seemed like we never had alone time, and we can't drive. So when I was house sitting (neighbors were watching for parties) I snuck him and a friend in lol, not the most ideal situation (with a friend there and all), but it worked and I felt it was very special. Then after the first time, the situation would just present itself and we had sex alot lol. Now after my mom found out about me having sex, along with his parents, we don't get a lot of alone time, pretty much none, but we definitely manage.
Ah yes, I remember my days of 'Ninja-Sex'. Half the time we had to be so sneaky and silent I felt like I was a rapist or something. There really isn't much to say about having sex in the home, other than staying up WAY past when your parents go to sleep. Or, as long as you live in a good area, you might be able to sneak off into the woods and have a good shag out there, too.Otherwise, practice your stealth, obviously, skirts are the best thing for the girls to wear, jeans are a great choice of pants for the boy (Since the hard fabric can hastily cover an erection much easier than say, sweat pants)Be sure to NOT change your routine when you're going to go at it. Nothing says "We're fucking like rabbits" to your parents better than turning off the TV, and closing the door. Be sure to establish those patterns now (IE, keeping the door closed, keeping the TV on a low volume all the time)Eventually your parents will grow up, and realize that indeed, you are having sex. Don't expect it to happen over-night, though. I think it took about 1 1/2 years before my parents started to leave my GF and I alone at certian periods of time, or knock and WAIT before entering. And if the question DOES come up, be sure to let them know you are using a condom and the pill.
Hehe, sorry but Ninja-sex made me giggle.
we dont have the pill :\ as she cant just go say, hey mom im fucking now can i have the pill. no that wont work, i still want to use 2 forms of protection, so ill be using spermacide stuff and a condom, will that work fine? and since sometimes her parents let her use there car, were gonna meet at the mall and like drive somewhere else and have sex in the car or somethin :\ anyway, any tips on what to do to make it good the first time? and will the protection im using be enough? they are real condoms by the way not like gas station ones haha
Kudos to your parents.You're 16...you don't have a car...you can't vote...maybe there's a reason they don't want you to have sex, no?Check out some of the threads in the masturbation forum. Some great tips for finding the most pleasure in taking things into your own hands.
It's not hard to get the pill with out parents permission. It took me literally no effort. Just around 30 minutes at a teen clinic. Do you have a planned parenthood near you? You can get birth control there generally free. www.plannedparenthood.com Or just look for a local teen clinic in your area.
i know i'm probably gonna be called a party pooper or anything but if your parents are abtimatly against it i think it would be best to honor their wishes atleast until you turn 18. And if your Still in the same relationship with the same girlfreind then maybe your parents might aproove of a more serious relationship. If your in it just for the sexual pleasure, shame on you, but i dont think that's the case here. An abstinent relationship may or may not be for the best.
I know this is a late post, but wanted to add this. I am not against people having sex when they think they are ready etc., but think about it...dont do it in the back of a car you first time or anywhere you are rushed or fear of getting caught. Wait for it to happen where you can enjoy it. Wether you have many partners or just one, no matter how many time you have sex in life you will always remember your first time...so make it special if you can.
heh heh, that just reminds me of when myself and a previous partner got caught in the back of my car... it wasn't my first time, but, holy hell, it was still really embarrassing... cars can be fun, but, make sure you park somewhere nobody will ever find you lol and, if you're really so desperate, why not book up a nice hotel room? I'm sure you have a part time job or something sounds sleazy, but, if you go there, with the intent of a good night out, rather than sex, then, maybe it'll happen, just don't force the issue, cause, then it is sleazy :SAnyway, hope you have fun with your "ninja sex" ... ah yes, what fun!! lolDan
i told my girlfriend i didnt thin ki was ready to have sex with ehr and she said the coolest thig never "thats ok, it doesnt matter what we do, as long as we're together"
Good for you two.Contrary to what some folks might believe, that's indicative of a mature relationship.
