Ok so me and my bf have been thinking about having anal sex. I'm a little on the unsure end, because of the pain people have said they have felt. I know that lots and lots of lube should be used, but I am really concerned about not being clean enough. I don't want to use an enema, I hear it is not necessary. Is using soap and water good enough. How should you go about in cleaning the rectum area? Have any of you guys or women had any problems with there being fecal matter ending up on the penis? I would appreciate the responses.
Question about anal sex
Make him wear a condom. That way he won't get any remnants on his dick. There won't be a lot of poop in there (unless you're on the verge of having a bowel movement), but if you're that worried about it, you can try to have one before anal sex to make sure everything is cleaned out.
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